my boyfriend won't let me drink a pint of lager he says i can have two halves, but not a pint, unless the pubs quiet, cos he says i'll look like a "chav" . should i put up with this sh1t? or jus tell him to shutup and that ill drink out of a half pint glass when im no longer able to drink pints. i.e like 75 yrs old.
2006-08-12 04:16:31 · 31 answers · asked by thespecialone 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
also we've only been together about a month and this isnt the only thing he tries telling me what to do. looks through messages on my phone, but i like him a lot though and im not normally a pushover in fact this is the first time i have done what iv been told to. within reason.
2006-08-12 04:31:07 · update #1
Its called CONTROL stop him NOW.......It always starts like this with small things.. but trust me it goes into much larger issues... Nip it in the Bud.....
2006-08-19 14:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by ibelieve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I prefer 2 half pints as I can feel a bit butch sitting with a pint and the lok of all that lager kinda puts me off so I find 2 halves easier to handle. BUT thats my decision, and if my boyf tried to tell me different I'd chuck him - esp after such a short time.
It does sound like he's trying to control you in many ways, get out now before it goes to far.
2006-08-14 13:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to bugger off
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holy cow, what difference does it make if you drink 2 or one? your gonna get the same results anyway. sounds to me like he is controlling and wants to make himself look like something he is not by making you into something your not. make any sense? if not.....sorry. drink out of what YOU want.
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tallerfella
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I'm thinkin it might be time to trade up and lose this fool. What else does he try to control in your life?
As long as you can pick it up, go for the pint!
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you need to tell him to shutup and you do what you want to do!
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Because he believes that you are not acting like a lady. IF you are not a lady then he would have to believe that you are shall we say a tramp. ( I am not implying that you are!!!!)
Ask him who specifically told him this? Then ask him are there some women that drink out of pints that aren't tramps?
That should really mess up the belief.
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i think u need to tell him to quit it or u are walking
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He loves you and has an poor method of displaying his affections for you by controlling your actions in public. He may be a bit insecure about things, and you should tell him how this makes you feel. After all, you do need your space! However, don't misjudge him to be mean, as this may not be his intent. Be sure to communicate with him on these issues if you think the relationship is worth salvaging!
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manny
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It sounds like you've got yourself a grade AAA, 100%, penis wrinkle control freak.
Tell him, sorry but I have this thing called a brain, and IT, and ONLY IT, tells me what to do!
UNELSS, of course, you like Daddy telling you what to do....?
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Well you are kind of cute, you could probably do with a better class of boyfriend. One that is less controlling. If youre annoyed by this now, it will only get more annoying with time and while he may mean well, it is the manner in which he tells you what to do that has me wondering about his character...
Tell him to stop treating you like a child and start asking you to do the things he wants, with a decent explanation. This will either piss him off so he will leave or you will be able to work out the differences you guys have...
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You need a new boy friend!
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I prefer 2 half pints as I can feel a bit butch sitting with a pint and the lok of all that lager kinda puts me off so I find 2 halves easier to handle. BUT thats my decision, and if my boyf tried to tell me different I'd chuck him - esp after such a short time.
It does sound like he's trying to control you in many ways, get out now before it goes to far.
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First break the pint over his head then ask him what did he say oh what is a chav? or better yet make me your boyfriend.
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2006-08-17 08:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are kind of cute, you could probably do with a better class of boyfriend. One that is less controlling. If youre annoyed by this now, it will only get more annoying with time and while he may mean well, it is the manner in which he tells you what to do that has me wondering about his character...
Tell him to stop treating you like a child and start asking you to do the things he wants, with a decent explanation. This will either piss him off so he will leave or you will be able to work out the differences you guys have...
2006-08-13 14:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Walter J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a yard glass, fill it with lager, then down the thing in one fell gulp, or however many it takes you. But do it quickly....then when it is all gone, make the anology that all the lager is gone - just like you are, and leave. Stay with a guy like that and next thing you know he'll be telling you what clothes to wear and who you friends should be.
2006-08-17 13:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find another boyfriend. This one is a real jerk! I've been around men like this and I come to discover the real reason why they act the way they do around certain people - they have such a low self-esteem to make themselves feel superior they will put you down just to make themselves look better. In the end, they are just a big waste of time. You need to find a man who respects you without treating you like you're stupid. Some men are extremely afraid of a 'free spirited' woman or an 'educated' woman. Move on girl, move on...............
2006-08-18 11:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you and has an poor method of displaying his affections for you by controlling your actions in public. He may be a bit insecure about things, and you should tell him how this makes you feel. After all, you do need your space! However, don't misjudge him to be mean, as this may not be his intent. Be sure to communicate with him on these issues if you think the relationship is worth salvaging!
2006-08-12 11:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by loaferpost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to drink a couple of pints then hit the bastard over the head with the empties. Are you so drunk you don't know you are with a loser. Cut him loose. If he is so controling over the small stuff, imagine the really big things. End it and be done with this loser.
2006-08-19 14:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he believes that you are not acting like a lady. IF you are not a lady then he would have to believe that you are shall we say a tramp. ( I am not implying that you are!!!!)
Ask him who specifically told him this? Then ask him are there some women that drink out of pints that aren't tramps?
That should really mess up the belief.
ALex
2006-08-12 11:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Osiris2067 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to drink alcohol you should be able to decide what size glass you want to drink it out of. A boyfriend of 1 month that is talking to you this way seems a bit pushy to me. What the hell does he care?
2006-08-20 03:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by tek1017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First break the pint over his head then ask him what did he say oh what is a chav? or better yet make me your boyfriend.
2006-08-16 15:50:56 · answer #11 · answered by charles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋