spank me (thank goodness!) but he signed the consent form to allow the female vice principal at my school to. I don't see what the difference is. In fact, I don't like the idea of being paddled by someone that does not love me. I am 15 and my dad says I am too old to be spanked by any man, including him, but he thinks it's OK for a woman to do it. My mom is not around any more. What do I do?
2006-08-12 04:06:03 · 20 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At 15 you are too old to be getting spanked and I don't agree with your vice prinicipal having the right to paddle you, that is not her place. Talk to your dad and tell him how you feel.
2006-08-12 06:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Dad seems wise and sensible. At your age, there could be imagined sexual implications in some people's minds if a man was to spank you, even if it was your Dad. In my opinion, you are too old to be spanked at all, except perhaps by a lover. But if your Dad thinks that you need spanking as a punishment, then your female principal is the best choice.
2006-08-12 04:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually think that is crazy. I have never heard of anything like that before. If you dad wants to disapline you he should punish or ground you, but not have someone spank you! If you're 15 then you're too old to be spanked by anyone! I don't think that it is OK at all. It might just be abuse. You should talk about it with your dad & tell him that there are better ways to punish you. For example, not letting you go on the comp. or watch TV for a week. Something like that.
-Stephanie-
2006-08-12 04:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do anything at school that will get you in trouble. Then you won't have the problem. 15 is a little old to be spanked.
2006-08-12 04:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam a single mother of a 18 year old son and i stopped the spanking bit along time ago. There is other ways of correcting a teenager whether it's a girl or boy.
2006-08-12 04:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by michele k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought they removed spanking from schools years ago and had instead chosen to use a ruler on the hands or something just as foolish. I am thinking your dad should look into school policies instead of signing anything like that. Or you are simply making up questions to pass your time.
2006-08-12 04:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Anyone spanking a 15 year old is just creepy to me. I think you should ask your father to ask around and see what other people think. It may get him to change his mind.
2006-08-12 04:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i had an answer for you miss my parents spanked both male and female until we were 17 and then when u turned 18 u had a choice follow the rules or get your own. good luck
2006-08-12 04:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by dmon12m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying and you speak a lot of sense. Even though it is not much fun to be spanked.
I live in Australia and if a Principal or a teacher laid a hand on a student they would probably get sacked. They are not allowed to touch a student.
2006-08-12 04:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 you are to old to be spanked - period.
2006-08-12 04:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋