HELP..i dont know what to do?? Please help!?
shes 13 im 15..it only 2 years....and if u like them it dont matter....she was all over me...and i could tell she liked me......so i asked her out....she said idk maybe...well its been about a month now..and she's really backed off.......well anyways....her and her mom are really close...and she told her mom..that she likes me...more than a friend..but she wont date me becuz she is scared of us breakin up..and thinks that if we do...it will be really weird seeing each other and stuff...what should i do...what if she loses interest....and y would she have backed off....how much time should i give her...will she come back around?? .what should i do..i like her so much..and trust me ...ive liked many girls...but none like her..i wanna be there for her....i want her to cry on my shoulder..what do i do to get her back...without "scaring" her?? I mean she's never had a bf b4.......so what should i do without scaring her??
2006-08-12 03:58:47 · 8 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she never had a bf b4 therefore she got scared and backed off. even if she does like you more that a friend she isn't willing to chance the friendship for it. "what if we get together, we have a bad break-up, then were not friends anymore" its something that we learn how to handle as we grow up. she's still young, u both r. i say talk to her and tell her how you feel. show her that the friendship wont be hurt.
2006-08-12 04:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you gave her enough time to think about it. She probably backed off because she is scared, which isn't a good thing because in life you are supposed 2 take chances. I think that she should take a chance & say yes. It will probably be worth it; you never know. Well since she hasn't answered you yet, then I guess you should just be really good friends & keep in touch. Don't be afraid to call her or make plans. Then see where you guys go from there. If nothing happens then try asking her 1 more time. If she still doesn't know then it is probably best if you stay close friends. But you never know what might happen from there. Just stay close & keep in touch.
-Stephanie-
2006-08-12 11:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a parent's perspective on this. You're 15, not quite marrying age, wanting a relationship with a 13-year old that's REALLY not ready (as much as you think you both are) for anything as serious as you want it to be. Any time you spend with her goes through her parents, and stays under their direct supervision. And that means back off from being "more than a friend" for right now and for quite some time to come. Any more intimacy than that, you better be asking her parents to be a part of it.
2006-08-12 11:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by ccrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok HOLD UP! Lol. All you need to do is tell her exactly what you wrote. If she knows the little details of how you feel maybe it won't make her feel uncomfortable to tell her how she feels. Just try it and hope for the best.
2006-08-12 11:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mishy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like her, then go 4 it. mean if u like her and she likes u then really, DATE HER!!!!!!!!! trust me girls want to be dated. so go, ask her. and if your too scared, then go on a double-date. it wouldn't be that scary if someone else is there with u. would it?
2006-08-12 11:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by pammypiano56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey she got what she wanted and realisd she didnt really want it to start out with.
2006-08-12 11:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by dizzogurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a kiss on her lips
2006-08-12 11:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Riya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give here a gift to love you
2006-08-12 11:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by amaja_92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋