it's really hard for me to open myself to anyone esp. a guy whom i know has feeling on me..
actually i have had only 1 boyfriend and now he's my ex (im the one who wanted to break wit him)
i have lots of boy friends but i never "felt" sumthin wit one of them
well i like guys but if they already be my friends then it's hard for me to feel more than just friend
2006-08-12 03:49:49 · 19 answers · asked by ViLandRa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first you must stop being his "buddy" ok
show that you wanted to be treated like a lady, not one the guys, not a sister.
show him you are interested before he says "oh she is just a friend"
don't tell him everything about you, keep some stuff secrets so that he will want more, don't burp, put on makeup in front of him or become to comfortable with him. if a guy gets too comfortable with you, he probably thinks your just a friend
flirt like crazy but not too much. ask you gf how they act if front of their bf.
2006-08-12 03:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by budaklolo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think getting to know someone as a friend first is the best way to go. You learn all their bad habits and see if it's something you can live with. When we "date" we usually censor ourselves so that the other person doesn't get scared away. My husband and I were friends for about a year before we got married, and when we did we knew it was the right thing to do and exactly what we were getting in to.
2006-08-12 03:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Candi H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So u havent met a right guy in ur life.
I think the friends with u havent hit u in a right way to court u.
May be u will meet him soon.
But U havent told about u. How do u look like(both inner and outer)?
coz even it may be ur problem.
good luck.
any how I wish to know ur mail ID. Otherwise here is mine sunrise_7427@yahoo.com. feel free to chat if intrested.
2006-08-12 04:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by surya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy; and usually if a gal has lots of guy friends, it means they'd like to step up to the plate but haven't found the nerve to ask you.
Picture a female dog in heat; I'm not calling you one, but there's always a pack of males around her; why?.....why do you think?
Don't fall for that "friends with benefits" crap, either. Any woman in that kinda relationship is just lying to herself.
2006-08-12 03:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have to make it happen smoothly. just have a trip with some guy you like very much. i think it's a good start to get intimate to someone on a trip many things might happen but ppl care about each other than themselves.
2006-08-12 04:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe guys feel relaxed when they are with you so they don't have to put up an act. i'd consider that your strength so just keep on doing it. make more boy and girl friends and one day feelings will emerge between u and that lucky guy.
2006-08-12 03:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by mi. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, the White Knight will come soon. It is a matter of Chemistry!!
2006-08-12 03:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need the attention, but don,t want the committment. this will change when you finally run across someone who really turns your head
2006-08-12 03:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well next time you find him, dont keep so much to yourself. ALSO, HAVING SO MAN GUY FRIEND SCAN DRIVE HIM OFF casue you gotta give him time to trust you or your friends unless he is one of them.
2006-08-12 03:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need a change.. like in locations like moving from where you are. you would ber suprised at just changing that , at what it will do for your social life
2006-08-12 04:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋