My life SUX right now. When does it get better. My bf who I loved just dumped me in the meanest way possible. It hurts so bad. Everytime I see him I want to cry. When does it get better?! When do those awful feelings go away?! Please help me!
2006-08-12 03:45:07 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep ur head up high, and u no what?? you show ur b/f that u dont need him ( even tho its still hurts) next time he sees u. You act happy, and like nothing ever happen, but u make sure he doesnt see that ur in pain, better yet just move and just forget bout him, if he can make u dry. You can make him cry !! show him that ur the best thing HE has LOST !!
2006-08-12 03:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time! Let yourself feel your emotions. Try to see what wasn't going well between the two of you and share with a good friend. After that, try something else! Maybe not a bf too quickly but get involved in others things. Do volunteer work! Get out with your friends! Read a good book! Love gets chemical flowing that makes us physically feeling bad when things go wrong. It's as if you've been cold turkey but time will help you. After a while, you'll see better what went wrong and you'll be able to switch to another type of guy who will take care of you and let you take care of him :-)
2006-08-12 10:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll start feeling better when you WANT to. It's your choice whether or not you're happy, so why not start today? Stay away from him, and know you're too good for him to be crying over. You'll find someone much better who you are more compatible with. Don't worry, it's not the end of the world. Having your heart broken if a fact of life. You can pray for God to help heal your heart, but you have to move on....NOW. The sooner the better for your soul...
2006-08-12 10:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry hun it may hurt now but youll find another guy that will make you 10 times more happier. For now ball your eyes out, grab a bowl of ice cream and go see a movie with a friend. Those feelings will pass with time- or if that doesnt work- revenge is a very sweet way to repay those who dump us in mean ways!
2006-08-12 10:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you relize that in order to have happiness one must esperience saddness.
Life is a fickle thing, enjoy every second good and bad for they form you into what you will be in the near and far future.
PS: Go down to your local food bank and volenteer for a couple nights and see those who have nothing, little food, little water, no loved ones and then reasses what your saying about how your life is so bad cuz your boyfriend is a meanie head.
2006-08-12 10:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to do three things.
One, take a shower and wash yourself clean, getting every part of you.
Two, have a nice long walk outside, enjoying hte sun.
Three, get thee to an ice cream store and have a huge bowl of chocolate ice cream.
You are not a bad person, but don't wallow in the nasty things that can happen in life.
2006-08-12 10:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your life does suck but it will get better so hang in there. like that kitten on a line poster. that guy may want you back some day and you can hurt him in the same fashion. Or you can find true love and forget about the pain of today
2006-08-12 10:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find a new boyfriend and it helps you get out of this. after some time you forget everything about what happened and you'll be so happy. and the other guy dumps you off again and it will be 10 times worse than what is right now.
sorry i'm negative.
2006-08-12 11:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that ur bf dumped you. I wish I had a solution for you. Life goes on, and in time your pain will fade. Time heals all wounds.
2006-08-12 10:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you have THAT kind of attitude about it!
Just chill- ALOT of pther people out there have it worse than you.
So shush up and foucus on the positives in your life- because I'm SURE you have some positives
So your life doesn't suck right not (just your love life)
I'm sorry :(
2006-08-12 10:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋