I was dating this woman, Laura, last year. At the time, I didn't feel like we had much chemistry, so I ended up breaking up with her. She seemed a bit distant towards me (not showing affection in public), and then there was the issue of my still having unresolved feelings for someone else. Then there was the fact I hadn't dated anyone in a while and my emotions were all over the map.
But... we've remained friends, and I've come to realize that she's a great person. When we broke up, she let on that her feelings towards me had been a lot stronger than she'd made clear, which, regrettably, I didn't place enough value on at the time. Laura's currently dating another guy, but she comes to get-togethers without him more often than not, and has dropped hints about not wanting to stay in the relationship. She's still very warm and friendly to me, which makes me wonder... Should I hint that I'd be open to getting back together, or just let things with the other guy take their own course?
2006-08-12 03:42:02 · 6 answers · asked by Blenderhead 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as if you have developed a great friendship with Laura. Since she is currently in a relationship, it is best to let it run its course, however, continue to remain friends. Who knows what the future will bring...whatever will be, will be. Good luck.
2006-08-12 03:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! I have to say men often dont realise what a great girl they had at the time, and its only afterwards they 'see the light'. Dont be too proud to tell her you'd like to give it another go - then at least she knows how you feel and she can decide if she wants to carry on seeing the other guy or you. Even if she doesnt choose you, at least you'll always know you gave it a second chance - much better than spending the rest of your life thinking 'what if'. I wish you the best of luck! x
2006-08-12 12:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Angelheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test the water with a very subtle hint, but dont push it! Make sure you're there for her when she does split up with the guy, just don't be the one to cause the split!
2006-08-12 10:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by homiepr8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can drop the hints, but also if thier relationship is on the rock make sure that she has broken up with him before going out with her again.
2006-08-12 10:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say it already if you really mean it...who knows maybe she's waiting for you to save her from that other guy...just save yourself the crazy thoughts and try to get back with her if that is truly what you feel....if she doesn't want it...at least you won't have to think about it anymore right?
2006-08-12 10:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have regrets. go out wit her again, but i have a feeling its not true love for you, or you would be gaga all over her by now!
2006-08-12 10:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋