he saids that he dont like his teacher and at other times he likes her , this friady he ran out of the classroom and was took back in it , i dont know what to do ! please help
2006-08-12 03:38:14 · 11 answers · asked by southerngurl_76 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
this is his 1st year in school and the 1st day he was okay with me leaving him and then the 2nd day he ran and screamed and cried saying he did not like his teacher and then sometimes he likes his teacher !! i need all the help i can get on this matter thanks to all that apply !!!
2006-08-12 03:49:30 · update #1
Well, I had the same problem with my son. He is now 6, But when he started school last year he hated it. It went from one thing to another. It takes to long to see you again, my teacher is mean, it is too hard, I am board. I finally had to set him down and tell him that there are things in life that we all have to do and we don't always like them. When that went out the door I told him that if he didn't go to school that what ever he wanted to do when he got older he couldn't do. At home I made it fun for him and played games to help him learn and made it easier, I also told him that if he went and tried his best that we would get to do something special together at the end of the week so that he would have something to look forward too.
2006-08-12 05:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by lovemetruely1980 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just take him to school like you are supposed to and listen to his concerns when you tell him. Have a talk with his teacher to see how he is in class. He may be being picked on by other kids.
My only child went through a tough transision from being by himself for 4 years then having to share time and things with other kids.
It's the teachers responsability to ensure your son is safe during school hours; and yours when he is home. Trust his teacher enough that she is doing the right thing.
He just seems overwhelmed. Perhaps a beanbag in the corner of the room may help.
2006-08-12 05:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by JOEYSMOM2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think every kid goes through this. I know all my younger siblings did and i have 3...your best bet would be to talk to him first., find out what the teacher does that he doesnt like and if its something as silly as not letting him sit by a friend or something tell him she does that for reasons...when she does that its because she doesnt want you to be playing...or something... if its somethihng semi serious or serios like her always yelling at him i would suggest going to the principal and just straight up telling him" this has got to stop, i want my son to be in a class room where hes happy and being treated lke a human..(sons name) says that ms(teachers name) is always(what is she doing to him?) and i think it should cme to a stop...if it doesn;t i will go to the school board about it."than tell him/ her that you don't mean to jump to conclusions but when your 5 year old son doesnt want to go to school because of a teacher, there is something wrong..and you want your son to get a proper education from day one, and you don't think its happening with this teacher.
good luck.
2006-08-12 03:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was happy to go before and this is a problem that just started, then talk to him and try to find out if somethings upsetting him, talk to his teacher and find out if anything has changed in school. New children in class etc. My son went through this and it turned out someone in school was harrassing him, talked to teacher, school nurse and sorted it out, it took time and it wasn't solved overnight. But usually talking things over with his teacher is the best course of action. They have dealt with it before and can advise best, and they know your child.
2006-08-12 03:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by sarkyastic31 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sons first day of Kindergarten was a hoot. He was so ready to go to school. At the end of the first day, his dad walked him home and he said he was never going back to school. He said he didnt learn a thing and all he did was colored all day. He said he could color at home! He has never really liked school and this year he is a Junior in high school.....my how time flies!
It is difficult to make a child like school or a teacher but bribery works a lot of the time.
2006-08-12 03:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If this is his first yr of school you can expect that.. have you thought about volunteering at school.. Teachers love the help.. but don't do it in his class.. but knowing your there may help him out.. and last.. take a deep breath and remember in 12 yrs he will be graduating.
2006-08-12 03:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by waiting4myredemption 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Have a nice chat with your son and convince him that school is fun and that you get to make a lot of new friends. Ask him to rey it out for a while and hopefully he will grow into it.
Good Luck.
Cindi
2006-08-12 05:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by ~Delilah~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to cheak the teacher i seen on tv that the teacher has hit on the kids and they are to sacred to go back to them so cheack up on the teacher and if they are acting nice to you go and tell the pricple and get them fried
2006-08-12 06:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by Dina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he been to any school for this one is my first question? If not, it just could be culture shock and he needs time and attention to adjust to his new environment.
If he not used to being away from you in any way, shape, or form, then hiring a licensed daycare or nanny to ween him away from you slowly, like attending a licensed pre-care may do the trick.
2006-08-12 03:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sit down and talk to his teacher and him and tell him that he needs to go to school it works
2006-08-12 03:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by dancinn186 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋