I have this problem. My personality, mood, and even sexuality fluctuate. One day I'll be humble, depressed, and gay, and another day I'll be angry, arrogant, and straight. I have no idea why it does this. My sexuality really does change. One day I'll be repulsed by guys and attracted to women, a few days later I'll be attracted to guys and so/so about women.
But anyway, the arrogant personality causes problems for me. Somewhere deep inside, I know that I'm wrong, but a bit higher up I feel I'm right (and I'm better than everyone, etc.). Fighting it, and trying to get rid of the arrogant personality, makes me feel bad about myself, so lately I've just adopted the arrogant personality to have all the time. I hate the person I am, but I can't change. I insult and condescend people, and I'm very judgmental and jealous.
Am I a bad person because of this? Is there any treatment that would fix this?
2006-08-12 03:37:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
hi,
well no u are not a bad person... i think u should go to a psychologist so that u can talk openly... maybe something happened that made u become like this and u don`t even realize it...
take care
2006-08-12 03:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by vedz666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a bad person? No. That you have recognized the problem is why, and that you are doing something about it.
There are no evil thoughts, only evil actions. A thought never violated anyone's rights.
You might find the "Psychology of..." series by Nathaniel Branden interesting, and containing more in-depth ideas to help you deal with the way you feel. When you are feeling arrogant and superior, you may not feel right about picking up "The Psychology of Self-Esteem," but I think that one might really open your eyes. I'll bet it makes you think "Ah ha! No wonder!" more than once.
2006-08-12 04:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by jtt283 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by asking your question, means that you are not a bad person. A truly bad person, would not bother to examine their ways of thinking. I struggle with some of the same problems, but I know that I battle depression and low self esteem. You need to consult a good therapist, to able to understand why you are having mood swings that affect how you relate to other people. Low self esteem is at the root of many problems concerning the way we relate to others. The only sure way of getting better is to see a good family doctor, that can recommend the answers to your dilemma.
2006-08-12 03:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bad person. You are a good person who sometimes does bad things, just like me.
You made a statement: "I can't change." That's an all or nothing statement. We believe the things we tell ourselves. The fact is, we CAN change, if we want to.
Here's something that has helped me the past few days, which I got from a website. Whenever I have a thought, I ask myself three questions:
1) Is this thought KIND?
2) Is this thought OBJECTIVE?
3) Is this thought CONSTRUCTIVE?
This has helped me to diffuse my negative thinking patterns.
Hope this helps...
Love, Jack
2006-08-12 05:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
from journey ive had the two an outstanding teenagers a million-12 then once I grew to become a youngster my mum and dad divorced and we struggled alot i could ought to assert it completely relies upon on how the guy see issues in his existence dealing with the two i strayed off into undesirable issues drugs and what not yet now im a extra suitable guy or woman i found whilst suffering between superb suited and incorrect soooo i desperate i wasnt going to be undesirable i replaced my conduct and issues..there is a few reality in what your announcing yet in many instances something ought to take place undesirable human beings come from good and undesirable childhoods good human beings come from good and undesirable childhoods additionally it in simple terms relies upon which way the toddler comes to a decision to pass. in simple terms by using fact i finished up there (undesirable tennage existence) i knew i wasnt going to stay there.
2016-10-01 23:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you may have is dissociative identity disorder which can be a part of Bi -Polar anyways go to see a theripist there are other ways to treat people today than just medicines but that might be part of it Good-Luck
2006-08-12 03:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by lagies mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad person. You just sound a little confused and unsure of yourself. Talk to your doctor and rule out any physical causes and go from there. Good luck to you.
2006-08-12 14:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....I don't think your a bad person....but....is this attitude of arrogance working for you? Doesn't sound like it to me. Lose.... the attitude and maybe you wont be so....selfish and critical of others.
The truth hurts....sometimes.
2006-08-12 05:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you have experienced trauma in your life and going to your family doctor and speaking to her/him about it will help out alot.....you can then be described medication to have you more balanced............maybe suggest "Zoloft" to your doctor.
go to google's home page and type in zoloft and go to there website and see if any of it sounds like you before you call your doctor.
2006-08-12 03:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your mad, but you should contact a doctor. You might have Bipoler(sp) or something.
2006-08-12 10:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋