This means if you have some1 that you only have casual sex with and that is all you want, and you are to scared to commit to anything more is that fare, this has been going on for years
2006-08-12 03:32:56 · 14 answers · asked by jen180568 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa- yearS- plural? Hun tell the guy exactly what you mean when you to go at it. Seriously he shouldn't be wasting his time with you if he's looking for a commitment- That's just not fair
2006-08-12 03:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want more and not know it but since it it easy just to do it this way, why work for it. As, far as fair goes, you need to have this conversation with this sex partner to see how they feel. If they Ware expecting more down the road, cut them loose so they can move on and find yourself a new casual relationship with someone who wants the same thing.
2006-08-12 10:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people always have to categorize? I think having casual sex repeatedly is a relationship, call it what you want, but enjoy it as long as you both like it. If you stop it might hurt. Can you tell the difference between sexual attraction and falling in love.
2006-08-12 11:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by lonely dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, nothing wrong with it. You get the companionship of a man, you get sex and you dont have to deal with any of the commitment bullsh*t. For me the casual relationship makes for some of the best sex I have ever had. For me the whole commitment thing kills my sex drive when things aren't going good. Enjoy yourself.
2006-08-12 10:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've been having casual sex with one person for years, here's news for ya: It's more than casual.
2006-08-12 10:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is fair. You can't have it all in the same time. If your partner don't feel it's not fair, it's okay right. But then if you already felt guilty or unfair to your partner, have a talk with him. Communication is needed to clear things out sometimes. Good luck.
2006-08-12 10:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fair if sex is all you want out of it. a real relationship is definitely more fulfilling than a casual one though.
2006-08-12 10:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't really a question of what's fair or not, it's a question of what you really want- if just having sex is cool with you, then no harm, no foul...BUT, if you want something more and are afraid to go after it, you are only cheating yourself.
2006-08-12 10:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone want a relationship just for sex only? I wouldn't.
2006-08-12 10:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready for a real relationship and the other person you are having sex with knows that, then it's fine. i did it for three years in college. now i'm in a full time relationship. when you aren't ready, you aren't ready.
2006-08-12 10:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋