There's a guy that I correspond with. I love to write hot, steamy letters to him to get him aroused and he does the same for me....does this make me a s l u t ? And if so, why? I'm single and have no significant other, so I'm not cheating...
2006-08-12 03:25:57 · 20 answers · asked by shynomore 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not like your having sex with alot of men its just away to enjoy yourself with out all the hassles of alot of men trying to harrass you the next day or thinking everytime they see you they will get laid its disease free have you talked to him lately or is it more on your terms
2006-08-12 03:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by beenwiredon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good. I am not alone. I know a gal who is married as I am and for reasons we won't go into does not have a spouse willing or able to give her any intimacy. We have business interests we e-mail back and forth on and when the mood strikes us we go into steamy detail about trailing kisses down smooth silky skin and yaddah. So far I stand ahead as she says if I were to write a romance novel the sale of hand held fans would double at least. Have fun and don't worry about the other idiots surrounding us.
2006-08-12 10:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's what you are both happy with carry on I say. You're not hurting anyone, but if you ever start feeling uncomfortable then stop. It's just a bit of fun, but be careful he may start asking you to live up to the fantasy you have planted in his head.
2006-08-12 10:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to cheat be a slut. Not that you are one. You feel like one becasue it is in your mind. In your mind and inner space, you are agitated, becasue its something that you know its not normal. Its surreal and fantasy and it is consuming you. You want to get out but cant. This may or may not apply to your situation, of it is break the power of this sexual bondage in the name of Jesus. The name above all name.
2006-08-12 10:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than keeping you guys turned on, what purpose does it serve? If he meets you what do you think he will expect? If I were him I would expect what you write. Is that the image you want him to have? Are you a slut? No. I would just wonder if you want to continue you this. . . because it could cause significant challenges in your life later.
2006-08-12 10:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anyone got hurt in the process? No right? As long as you feel happy doing it, It's okay to flirt once in a while.
2006-08-12 10:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only a sl*t if you screw tons of guys, have one night stands, and think it's cool. Those people obviously have low self esteem and don't care nearly enough about their bodies.
2006-08-12 10:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no youre not a slut seriously its just letters i think its great nobody writes letters anymore dont sweat youre entitled to get youre rocks off like anybody else
2006-08-12 10:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it does..as a matter of fact, I think it provides you with a healthy sexual outlet..not to mention the fact that you are no doubt making someone's day-he's a lucky guy! :)
2006-08-12 10:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn' make you a bad girl, naughty maybe, but not bad. If you ever get famous though, it may haunt you.
2006-08-12 10:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋