I like a boy in school very much. But i fear if i say him i'll lose him. can't understand his feelings. we have never talked to each other. pleaz be polite to give a hearty and serious answer. i am seriously worried. bcuz i don't wanna lose him....pleaz be kind and take my question seriously....
2006-08-12 03:14:25 · 23 answers · asked by Mad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm afraid I don't understand your situation. If you haven't talked to each other, then how are you going to "lose" him? You don't even have a relationship as it is...
If this is someone you have a crush on and haven't spoken to, speak up! Nothing will come of it if you let it slip on by. At worst, he will not be interested and you can move on and look for someone else. At best, he will feel the same way.
If you are in a relationship with this guy and you guys don't talk, make the attempt! If you two aren't talking, you aren't really in a relationship. If he doesn't want to talk, it is in your best interest to just move on...
2006-08-12 03:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Physh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all been there honey, and but for a few fortunate people it doesn't get any easier :-) I say, get to know him as a friend, you may be shy at first, but test the water before jumping in. Once you get to know him you may not even like him, at the moment you probably like the 'idea' of being with him that's all. If he refuses to be a 'friend' walk away, he's not that nice and you don't need him if that is his attitude, BUT if you do become friends relax and see what happens, force nothing and see how it goes, if it comes to a point where you feel you can be open with him, or honest with him then tell him how you feel and who knows he may just feel the same way. You're young and you will feel your way and learn as you go along, but my advice is always respect yourself and don't get too clingy or desperate, be yourself and see what happens. All the best
2006-08-12 10:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have crushes on boys. If you tell him you will probably scare him away. Unless he has shown any signs of liking you back don't tell him. Kids can be cruel and then you will feel even worse. If you can't just admire him from afar. You are young and will meet a LOT of guys you like over the years. The best way to be attractive is to be confident of who you are, take care of yourself and have an interest in many things in life. You will capture the attention of many in doing so and make many friends.
2006-08-12 10:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let a friend you trust tell him clearly that you like him. See how he responds.
Talk to your mother and father. Ask for their advice.
Pray or meditate on this. Seek clarity in thought. Remember that you are not the first who has pined for another.
I understand the Judy Blume books are very good to read. They deal with situations like this.
The worst thing you can do is worry. It won't help you, and will very likely hurt you. Let go of your worries. Then you can think clearly and make better decisions.
2006-08-12 10:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you like him, he cannot be yours. You have to confirm that he also likes you. Corner him fast before anyone else does and tell him your heart is with him!!
Without knowing his attitude, how can you own him? (Is this polite, hearty and serious?)
2006-08-12 10:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't lose what you never had.
talk to him, just as friends. Ask him how he is, what he's doing, what he thought of ___ class.
You may find he's not who you thought he was, and if he still is then at least then you two have something to base things off of and then maybe a friendship or he wil ask you out
2006-08-12 10:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me on this , always start open and honest to lay a good foundation in a relationship and it will last . if its meant to be. some folks are not really compatable, thats where the open and honest comes in, truth may hurt, but its best in the end.
2006-08-12 10:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by nocateman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 1st u should try 2 bcome his good friend
either directly or through one of his friends.
then when u become his friend, then try meet him
some where or call him to ur house or give him a treat
4 sumthing....then tell him abt ur feelings.....other wise u cannot
get him......if u luv him truly then surely u vil get him one day
i m sure abt it
so best of luck....hope it works out....
2006-08-12 10:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by navin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you lose somebody if you've never talked to them? How can you even like them if you've never had a convo with them? It's just a crush you'll grow out of it.
2006-08-12 10:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well at first you should approach him and talk to him because if you don't then who knows if he even knows you. then you should become his friend and ask him out, or actually wait for him to ask you out incase u have the fear of rejection. so its up to you how you play it but you should at least talk to him
2006-08-12 10:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋