i want to forget a person. and i think that hating the person is the best soluti0n to evryting. but i dont kn0w h0w t0 hate him. i reallu dun0. c0z i l0ve him... you must understand.
2006-08-12 03:06:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just anooyin ... hating wont make u forget... just will make u remind more and u will end up lovin him more lol .... just make a move..
2006-08-12 03:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god yes i do understand, as will many others out there i know. I also know how hard it can be to get over someone, but hating them really is not the answer, and well there isn't anything anyone can say to make you feel better either im afraid, but all i can really say is that time is one the greatest healers and although you are desperately hurting etc now only time can take away that pain, also you need to get out there and have a bit of(or should i say ALOT of) fun for the time being and just play around abit or something, as if it was really meant to be then he would still be there with you, so it obviously wasn't meant to be but do not worry as you will get over it in the end.
2006-08-12 03:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No to both. There particularly isn't a suitable note for the way i imagine and experience after I once loved someone, and then no longer do. i can attempt to describe it, yet no longer some thing particularly comes on the breaking point of precise. i imagine that is because the sentiments of the affection I had were no longer as complicated because the sentiments in contact with hate or despising. the affection felt basic, bonded and trusting. To lose that simplicity, bond and believe demands a closer inspection and diagnosis of my own needs, vulnerability, motivations and fears. So i'm no longer particular if it ever reaches hate interior my being, considering I understand the area i have performed contained in the courting, ignoring what I must have considered, or being too stupid to maintain in mind that i turned right into a fool. after I dislike someone, it is extra of a case of delving into melancholy, to the point that it feels good and someway perversely gratifying. i imagine it must be a spread of protection mechanism, to remind myself no longer to be damage back interior an same way, with out dropping ability on the intensity of hate. solar in Pisces contained in the sixth Venus in Pisces on the fifth/sixth cusp
2016-11-29 23:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hating a person is a very painful process. Why do you hatred a person tt u love before? At the end, nobody is suffering except you coz you feel tt by hating the person you feel better but infact it is the contrast.I dun know what caused u to hate the person so much. In fact I thk if you learn to forgive him, you may feel better even though it is something which is not easy to do. But if you were given a choice of either hating or forgiving the person you love, which will you choose? The decision is yours.
2006-08-12 15:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first is not true dat if u hate a person u can easily forget him,just love him be in ur heart for as long as u want tym will come u urself will open d door n will let him go out from ur heart cause u have found someone better dan him comes n he's d 1 u want to be in ur heart for the rest of ur life....its all the same ting after ur relationship or if on this moment u love this person as in ur super inlove to him bt tym will come u will soon forget him...n just believe if u r reli destined for each other tym will come unexpectedly he will come to you....uuuuu
2006-08-12 03:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i watched a movie about love by jackie chan and shuqi.
one person says that there is no need to forget your lost love. now you remember him or her everyday. after 1 month, every week. after 1 year, every month. soon, the memory of him or her will seem to fade away.
only then will you able to control your thoughts more and just think of him when you are say watering the plants.
hope this helps you.
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2006-08-12 03:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to hate a person that you love or once loved..What you have to do is attept to forget about that person by just staying away from him and staying busy with friends and people that make you happy and with time you won't even miss him
2006-08-12 03:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Green_Eyez:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. My ex- boyfriend was so mean and we always fought. But i still love and hate him at the same time. Its so hard that we dont talk anymore. I feel so lonely sometimes but you just have to be strong and just follow what you believe in.
2006-08-12 03:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by kristikay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact is that you can't truly hate someone that you didn't truly love at some point. one doesn't exist without the other. perhaps you should really evaluate both of those feelings thoroughly before you convince yourself of either of them
2006-08-12 03:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Debbapoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you love someone, you cannot hate him. They are opposite.
Just stop loving him. It's the same thing.
2006-08-12 03:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by inotstupidtoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋