shes 13 im 15..it only 2 years....and if u like them it dont matter....she was all over me...and i could tell she liked me......so i asked her out....she said idk maybe...well its been about a month now..and she's really backed off.......well anyways....her and her mom are really close...and she told her mom..that she likes me...more than a friend..but she wont date me becuz she is scared of us breakin up..and thinks that if we do...it will be really weird seeing each other and stuff...what should i do...what if she loses interest....and y would she have backed off....how much time should i give her...will she come back around?? .what should i do..i like her so much..and trust me ...ive liked many girls...but none like her..i wanna be there for her....i want her to cry on my shoulder..what do i do to get her back...without "scaring" her?? I mean she's never had a bf b4.......so what should i do without scaring her??
2006-08-12 03:03:02 · 8 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off.. PLS TRY TO CALM DOWN!! shes just afraid, maybe ur her first love or guy who she likes too much.... i seems u really like her, which is good and it seems like she know but shes shy.... give her time.... she will get back to you.. btw ..... try her the sweetest you can ... meaning to dont make her feel like your rushing cuz she will get closer and u will get crazier lol....
2006-08-12 03:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and give it time, you're both only young! If you continue to be a really good friend to her eventually you'll probably end up going out. If she's backed off a bit, give her that space, she'll like you even more for it. Just treat it as a friendship, if anything is meant to develop from it then it will in its own time.
2006-08-12 10:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by homiepr8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space, she's only 13. She doesn't want to get into something that may end up hurting her and she is smart to wait until she's older to start dating. You guys are much to quick these days. Enjoy being a kid, there is plenty of time for relationships when you mature and really know what it's all about.
2006-08-12 10:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have patience and be friends but don't try to date her at this time. Also if you know her mother then it would be a good idea to visit the girl at her home with the family around but do not stay very long until you know if you are accepted or not. Only see each other around other people and time will take care of the rest. Please have patience and do not try to hurry things.
2006-08-12 11:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 = She's 13 and never had a boyfriend.
2. You're 15 and had lots of girlfriends.
That probably boils down what the problem is. Maybe you should look in your own school. I mean, you're high school and she's middle school, right.
2006-08-12 10:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously... how many times are you going to ask this question? Just chill... everything will work out
2006-08-12 10:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by cassidy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friend first.
Let it go naturally.
2006-08-12 10:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Peter Pan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat? tmi i cant conencentrate....im soooo tired...i wen to bed at like 2am and got up a 5am to go to the american idol registrations....now i hafta go t owork...adnf balah blaha blah....oh by the way i gave up reading ur story...sry
2006-08-12 10:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋