my b/f ryan is nice and sweet when he wants to be.
but he's not very supportive of me and my kids. all he eats is slim fast.he hasnt had a job in 4 months. he hasnt even asked me to marry him yet,weve been dating for 5 years almost 6!
every night all he wants is me to have sex with almost every night.and he tells me he wants lots of kids,but i don't b/c i dont want him to leave us,or hurt us.many of my friends say i need to kick him out. should i?
2006-08-12 03:02:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the nice and sweet ryan is a show, in my opinion. he is just mooching off of you
2006-08-12 03:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Josh M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-13 05:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by traffic to website, earn money, 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he wants lots of kids douse he have lots of kids money ? give him an altamadem get a job in 2 weeks are get out some peaple have a tendency to get lazy if thay arnt self starters you can try to motivated him but if thay are resistant you chances are its a pattern thay dont want to change. as for the sex everynight he probly thinks that will keep you interseted so he can go on been a deadbeat get strong and be ferm
2006-08-12 10:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by letta g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's say you have to ask him first be for you dumb him out your life the problem is to marry you and the love between you and him if he replied on marrying you and said wait or no you have to go away from him for short time and if he say sorry and apologized to you and say would you marry me you can go ahead with him
or dumb him away if.....he replied and say no and You are a giver. He is a taker and using you for sex. Tell him to get off his duff and get a job and that if he doesn't lose his excuses, he'll lose you.
2006-08-12 10:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by amaja_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all: DO YOU LOVE HIM??
If you do, don't listen to your friends. They mean well but it's really up to you to decide.
Talk to him, gently, abut making some life decisions.
Tell him you're bugged by some habits he's had... Like the eating and not having a job.
Gently ask him to get his act together or he might lose you. That should scare him into doing something about it...
Good luck!
2006-08-12 10:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nina E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well all i can say is listen to your HEAD... and if the bad outweighs the good it's time to say bye bye... only you know whats best for you and your kids.. best of luck don't forget theres plenty of other fish in the sea, as corny as that saying is... it's so true.. and theres nothing wrong with being single for a while ... it's good for the soul
2006-08-12 10:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump his a ss and come move in with me, i got a full time job , don,t drink slim fast anddon't really need any more kids
2006-08-12 10:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u suld kick him out of ur life,if u r woman w/kids from ur ex n u want to have another lovelife,u suld prioritize how ur bf will deal to ur kids,remember u can find thousands of husband but u can never find ur children they are ur own blood.n its so obvious that all he want from u is sex,he don't have job?????how can he support u n ur kids,he can be nice n sweeet if he wants to be 'don't waste ur tym with him....kick him out fast....
2006-08-12 10:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you need to and maybe he'll want to do better and make the relationship work he's a scrub you should be home not working not him i say kick him to the curve
2006-08-12 10:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a giver. He is a taker and using you for sex. Tell him to get off his duff and get a job and that if he doesn't lose his excuses, he'll lose you.
2006-08-12 10:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋