I met this lovely girl, in one of the strangest of ways..in one of those websites were you know people from all over the world. And she out of nowhere talked to me. And she told me that she usually didnt visit the website for long ago, until that day i was on... She gave me her msn and after talking days on msn we met yesterday on a horse fair. She went with one of her friends and i guess it was kinda ackward. We sat with some of her friends and spend the night mostly with them. But i didnt talk or do much cause i really didnt know these people and it has been a while that i havent gone out with a girl. So i felt bad i didnt do much, couldnt get along with em cause most were hammered. So at the end it was like, a hug and nice to met you and both, of what i saw, were happy to have met each other.
But i know i didnt give the fullest of me. Is there a way i can make up for that? Thank you for reading almost the 1000 characters there are..and trying to help...hehehe
2006-08-12 02:33:24 · 21 answers · asked by xtorbo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can ask her go out with you to a public place where there's a lot of people( to let her know that she's safe with you) and not to bring her friends along. Just the two of you. And, relax. You don't have to talk all the time to seem interesting. If she talked to you online, she must have seen something in you that she liked.
2006-08-12 02:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Thot77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to meet someon online. It's kind of weird that she wanted to meet you and be drunk at the same time. That may not be a good sign.
I understand why she might have wanted to have a friend along because you just never know who you are going to meet online.
What I recommend is you keep talking to her through MSN and see what develops.... but at the same time consider meeting someone the old fashioned way. It's really better and you get a better sense of who they really are.
The Internet can only take you so far.
2006-08-12 09:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. That is the difference between online and real-life, it is easy to relax when you are hidden by a monitor. You have to just be honest and real whether online or in real life (hence the reason I don't use an avatar). If you are nervous, say you are nervous. Tell her what you are feeling. Being honest is the only way to find someone you like and to see if they really like you. Good luck.
2006-08-12 09:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Robb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you talk to her just explain to her that you felt a little out of place and didn't know how to react to her friends. She'll understand... a first date/meeting is always a little awkward.
2006-08-12 09:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let is go and see what happens.....what do you expect given the situation? Trust me, she will let you know if she wants to continue. But, let this be a lesson....never meet someone for the first time with a group of people!
2006-08-12 09:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her online get to know each other on the phone do anything but meet face to face. yu have to be comfortable and be able to talk to her like she was one of your friends. sometimes it takes a few thousands tries but in the end, its worth it. don't worry everyone is nervous and the first date is always awkward for everyone. was her friends nice and did you learn anything abouther from teh conversations? you don't have to everything right away. pull her a sideaside, take a walk, get alone with her for one on one talks, and really listen that's important.
2006-08-12 09:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by KALI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a loser, but u should go call her, or if you were too much of a loser to ask for her number, go on the internet and ask her out, not with her friends dumbass, for the date you should get a really nice makeoverso she'll be impressed and after the date give her a hell of a kiss.
2006-08-12 09:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by Holly♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing lost. Get ready for another meet and be a bit bold to entertain her the next time.
2006-08-12 09:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by om 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly speaking maybe she wasnt attracted to you much when she met you but at the same time she's being nice so as not to hurt you..i know this hurts but u either confront her or just get her out of ur mind
2006-08-12 09:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by cupcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you wish you would like to go out again and explain the fact why you maybe you werent as great as you could be. tell her that the next time you just want it to be you and her so you can really get to know each other.
2006-08-12 09:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by cunfuzd15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋