right i lefted mu boyfriend cause he hit me and i stay with a friend cause i told her what he did
and my boyfriend rang me up and sed give him another chance and he will not hit me again
but everytime since ive been back he has brought it up everyday
and my friend has a new boyfriend and she want me her and him to talk on msn but her boyfriend had something rude on his msn name and my boyfriend read it and slapped me for it and i didnt want to talk to him anyway
wot i want to know is do u think my boyfriend nut
and he thing women should be slapped if they do thing wrong
now i cant talk to my mate and i fell bad cause she a good person but her life we let just say she likes men
2006-08-12 02:28:44 · 13 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cheated on him once when i was really drunk but he did hit me before i cheated on him
2006-08-12 02:31:20 · update #1
YOU ARE FULL OF CRAP!!!!!!!!!!
Quit wasting everyone's time with your whiney bull !
You have asked this questions four times already.
He's been physically abusing you for 4 years and you left him before and you cheated on him.
Great track record!!
I bet he has a few extra slices on the side so that he can get a little strange after he gets tired of ***** slapping you around.
Get out of yahoo and get help.
2006-08-12 02:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your friend right now. You can always make up with her. You have bigger problems and so does your boyfriend. You should really get away from your boyfriend. No woman deserves to be hit like that over ANYTHING. If you keep letting him get away with that he's gonna realize he can do that to you and he'll probably do it more often over the littlest things. This is dangerous. Haven't you ever heard of women who were dating or married to men who beat them and one day their man just went off and stabbed them or set them on fire and tried to kill them? Are you really gonna take that risk? Get as far away from him as possible. Go to the police. I hope you make the right decision and give yourself a better life. There are men out there who don't do that. Go find one! Please!
2006-08-12 09:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has hit you at least twice.
You should leave him as he is abusive. He said he would
not do it again, and he did, so he cannot be trusted.
Do not think that he will change. Without some sort of
therapy abusive people almost never change. What makes
you think he will where the vast majority of other people like
him do not?
Leave before you get hurt.
2006-08-12 09:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman or man should ever be hit in a relationship...unless it's just playful sexual fun...if he hits you now as a girlfriend, he will beat you as a wife. You need to move on or prepare yourself for a life of abuse. You and only you can decide if you want a life of abuse or happiness.
2006-08-12 09:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Just Some Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will only get worse.leave now and don't go back.he will keep hitting and it will get worse.when you leave he will call to tell u it wont happen any more and he needs help. he will say any thing to get you to come back.u need to get out now.report all that has happen to police so there will be a record.also get a restraining order.when u leave,tell all that live around u what he looks like and what he drives.then tell then all if they see him around u or at your house.to call the police. do this or it will only get worse. i grow up in a home were my dad beat my mom,and have also work with battered women.ill pray for u.don't Waite,get out now.
2006-08-12 10:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by bbbyrk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from reading this you did not do anything wrong.. no man should be treatn u this way. You and no other woman for that matter do not deserve to be smacked around period..not matter what they do wrong your boyfriend is WRONG .. and especially over stupid things such as those u mentioned. I say u should dump him girl.. u gave him another chance and he disrespected you again.. it may be risky stayin in this relationship.. things could get worse .. fast.. Good Luck = )
2006-08-12 09:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by rad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called relationship abuse (yes i think your bf is a nut!) and if i were you, i'd walk away from this relationship because no one who will hit you will ever love you with respect and admiration.
c'mon girl. you deserve better so love yourself and find someone worthy of your love!
as for your friend... you gotta decide whether it matters to have a friend who loves men (depends on ur own definition on what is right and wrong)
2006-08-12 09:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser and don't go back to him because he'll keep hitting you and you'll lose your friendship with you friend over that and he's not worth it just move on and find a guy that will respect you and not hit you
2006-08-12 09:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo b/f is an idiot..and it's time for a change..anytime a man has to slap you for anything he aint right..time for seperation..tell that foo good riddins
2006-08-12 09:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using spell check, your question is a bunch of gibberish. It doesn't make sense.
2006-08-12 09:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋