I don't have a gfriend I'm 26.but i wonder about things, you know^^
I've been wondering, how do guys and girls..who were friends, then they start being gf/bf..how do they go from what they began with, which is talking, to kissing and touching.. I just find it like you would need super confidence to just start kissing a stranger. And what amazes me is some people even kiss in the first date( seeing this in dating shows)
2006-08-12 02:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends... For some people, kissing strangers isnt such a big deal. In your case, you'll have to take things, one day at a time...
In other words, cross the bridge when you get to it, ok? Dont spend to much time thinking what "ifs". Its just a waste of time.
2006-08-12 02:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is all about biochemistry (hormones). In some people, the hormonal response is powerful and almost instantaneous (kissing and touching happens on first date), while in others it takes more time to develop. You may be one of the individuals whose hormonal response is slow and doesn't really become strong until an intimate relationship develops. If your confidence is suffering a bit because of this, remember it's not so much your personality as it is your hormones. You might be able to speed things along by consciously making the effort to move in a little faster with that first kiss. That may be all it takes to kick those hormones into high gear for you and your chosen partner. Go for it, and good luck!
2006-08-12 02:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...flachic why don't you chill girl. the guy said he was just wondering about it. his age is irrelevant because not everyone, no matter what their ages, knows everything...including you. don't you ever just "THINK" about things at times in your life? i don't see him as immature...i see him as a "thinker or wonderer of things" in this life. get off your high-and mighty pedestal and come back down to earth like the rest of us humans.
as for the question it is interesting and i think it has a lot to do with maybe how well they gradually get along from the interest they share with one another. a chemistry begans to form as they get to know one another so they like each other more and more as the days go by and they want to be together more and more. they get closer and closer both emotionally and physically. (the physical part, for some people, can range from a genuine innocent attraction all the way to complete lust which would explain why some people might kiss or even go as far as having sex with each other on the first meeting). i have wondered about your question also as i'm sure people of all ages have.
2006-08-12 02:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Leicha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you go from just talking to being physically intimate? Gradually.
In my experience, there comes a moment when you're talking to each other, but sitting or standing VERY close. You start leaning in and looking into each other's eyes. Then, there's a lull in the conversation, and next thing you know, your bodies take over and you're kissing.
For some people it comes more easily or quickly than for others. Don't worry about it.
2006-08-12 03:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first saw this question I thought it must be from a 12 year old.....Eeee Gads...you are 26???? Seems like you have some serious deficits in the relationship department!! You are very immature and I have really no advise in that department! You may want to talk to a friend about it who will keep your "problem" confidential!
2006-08-12 02:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about Chemistry!!! Trust me... There is no magic que.. you just know. I had that once and it is truley wonderful to know that you can be that comfortable with someone and share those "moments." As for the people who kiss on the first date on those shows....They are just hoes, thats all! Those people are NOT the ones you need to be looking at for relationship information!!
2006-08-12 02:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kno, i wonder that my self. Ive just come to the conclusion that a two people see something different about each other, then others, and something clicks. After that, the kissing and stuff just happens.
2006-08-12 02:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not up to you it your body. if two people are in love your body feel the need to communicte that feel throught touching.it not a plan you work out if it's real love it naturally there, throught your pouse and skin mind heart ans souel.....
2006-08-12 02:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you decide...it just happens when two people like each other
2006-08-12 02:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will ask 4 it when ever u re into it.u will surly ask 4 it
2006-08-12 02:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by shebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋