I always fall for the outgoing and witty guys who make friends easily. The problem is...I can never tell the difference between when they are interested in me...or when they are just being nice and friendly.
examples.
1)they call on their way home from work...just to talk (they are stuck in traffic). but do they call everyone or many people on the drive...cause they like people and talking?
2) they always suggest hanging out or making plans....but they are outgoing and like being around people.
etc.
how do you know when they are into you? how do friendly, outgoing guys show interest in more than just friendship? do they get more friendly or become shy? i'm really curious and confused...please help all you can! I don't wanna get the wrong impression.
2006-08-12 01:40:26 · 12 answers · asked by Rockerchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he didn't like you and enjoy talking to you, he wouldn't be calling you, he would be calling someone he liked more. If he was me I would be waiting for a signal from you that you were interested. Us men hate being rejected and always wait for a signal from a woman if we are serious about her. If we just want sex we go for it. If we want more , we wait to see if she is interested. I think you need to send a signal....like when he calls you say, "if I am not mistaken, you seem to like me as more than just a friend." His response from there should give you the information you need to move forward.
2006-08-12 02:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Just Some Guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it easy girl,the best love relationship comes from a great friendship,go ahead,hang out and relax,when he plants that first kiss or looks deep into your eyes with other feelings you will know,see what his reaction is if you reach out and grab his hand to hold,that is about the simplest way to see if the feelings go a bit deeper than friendship-good luck
2006-08-12 01:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you probably could've looked through resolved questions to find the answer to this one. JUST ASK HIM!!!!! Maybe he's feeling the same way about you. Why all the game playing and head games in dating? Be honest. You want to know where you stand? Call him out.
2006-08-12 01:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think now this is my opinion:
when they are talking to you, on that phone driving home from work then it is you they want to talk with..that's a plus to you.
If they calls you up and make the plans with you going with them wherever..I think that is a plus to you.
It might not be that they're shy, it could just be their personality all wrapped up in one..
This is my opinion:
I hope that it allows you to see this differently.
2006-08-12 01:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extroverts NEED to be in constant contact with people. They are rarely shy. If they like you they will most likely tell you in less subtle ways. Usually by telling you how much they prefer hanging out with you or talking to you.
Then again you could always ask them.
2006-08-12 01:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by iggwad ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the situtation for what it is. Don't make something more of it.You will know if it changes. Just don't get your expectations too high. One day at a time.
2006-08-12 01:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if he does the things that you say then he likes you. If he wants you to go out with him alone he's asking you out. If he had a girlfriend already he wouldn't go as far as to ask you out alone if nothing else than out of fear that his girlfriend may get the wrong idea.
2006-08-12 01:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time Girl.... No need to rush things. In time you'll know the answers to your questions.
2006-08-12 01:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u will ask me.,the truth is i cant answer your question,.cause everyone is different.,every people.,but there's one solution.,if u can.,i will .suggest that u confront him.,if u only can.,but if u really cant just observe him.,if he blushed or do something unusual.,,,
2006-08-12 01:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey stupid, he's trying to make a connection with you
2006-08-12 01:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋