What should I do about her birthday?

Question

Well her birthday is coming up in Jan. I know it's awhile away. But well really to me it's not. She doesn't want me to send her anything. But well the thing is that she is going to be sending me something for my birthday and I feel really horrible because I can't send her anything. So well any ideas on what to do or say to make it up to her.

yes for those of you who are confused at this point, we have an online relationship. I'm in Florida she's in Alabama.

Please Help!!!!

ok before anybody else says it, I can't send her anything because I don't have her address. And well if she doesn't want me to send her anything, asking for it won't do anything, because she will say no and say that she doesn't want anything. So well that's why I'm asking if there is anything else I can do, to make it up to her seeing on how she doesn't want me to send her anything. I mean should I write her a love letter, a poem, maybe raincheck it until I see her eventually. But well I just need some ideas, because I'm clueless at this point

Thanks for the comments and taking your time to write it. I really appericate them. But I still need more options before I close this so that i can have some more ideas on what to do

Answer 1

Well, i don't have an online relationship, but my girlfriend made me a powerpoint presentation with all our pictures and some nice captions for my birthday. it just felt like she spent a lot of time on it rather than just go out and pick something up at the store, it was nice, i liked it. maybe you could do something like that.

Answer 2

Send her something for gods sake!
Don't you know that when girls say no they really mean yes?
Trust me, she'll gut you virtually if you don't get her something.

Answer 3

Send her something. Be creative.