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How many of you men truly give a s*hit about making the woman orgasm and take the time to DO it? Just want some honest answers here, if you are so inclined...........over the age of 30 is a bonus :)

Not in the mood to chat with horndogs, messenger is off.

2006-08-12 01:20:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Big grins to anyone who can tell me what they think it takes TO make a woman orgasm...in general

2006-08-12 01:22:14 · update #1

29 answers

there is a lot that goes into it, first and most important is to get her in the right mental mood, to want to c u m...however, each girl is a little differant, but then the tounge and a finger or two inside to the g spot usually works, most girls like a slow circular motion with the tounge, not fast and not hard, but a slow continous do not stop and start motion. do not get faster, as guys like, and it is hard sometimes to keep the same speed going cuz as you get excited so do I and want to move faster, as would work with a guy, but I concentrate on going at the same rate until she c u ms, then its my turn, and my oh my am I hard by then...lots of times it will make her go again, and again, by the time I'm done, she is all worn out, but ready for more...

2006-08-12 01:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by wizzard 4 · 5 1

If the woman I am with doesn't have orgasms and I mean more than one, then I can't have one. I mean that too, but you would have to know me to completely understand that. I work so hard to help her have an orgasm so that I can have one and we're both satisfied. However, I am like no other man you have ever met most likely. I will only tell you more if you contact me, because it is very personal.

2006-08-12 02:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Just Some Guy 2 · 0 0

Honestly, I get more pleasure from making the woman have two or three orgasms, before I have mine. It not only makes for a happy lady, but I am not so inclined to just get off myself, and just to let you know, I'm 53 and still very much alive, and open for further comment

2006-08-12 01:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0 0

I'm 49. I love to feel a woman quiver and and hear a woman orgasm and the taste !!!!!!!( like nothing on earth ) I found out over the years that you have to please your woman in order to keep them home.Also you don't have to be hung like a horse to give a woman an O.Take your time find out the little things that make her feel good perfect the ones she likes most.Sometimes its hard to find out on your own so just ask .Don't give up. It takes time to find the things she likes. Each woman has different things that turn them on.In the heat of it all when she has to have you right now!!!!!.Don't. Pro-long it keep going.Remember its for her not you! Also a woman has to be open minded to explore other avenues

2006-08-12 02:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0 0

Well,to be honest,I'm 45,married for 14 years,and still in love with my wife.Shes not the easiest woman I've been with to make her orgasm,and I know a fake one from the real one.But the times I truly suceed ,its a feeling a woman cannot hide,how much wetness is on the bed,the aroma in the air,the shiver in her body,the crooked smile on her face,and I love it

2006-08-12 01:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by mysontrey 1 · 0 0

I'm 44. My wife is 39. We have 2 daughters, age six and age two. The youngest is developmentally challenged and has hearing aids in both ears(when she's not pulling them out). What's an orgasm?

2006-08-12 01:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Im 53 and I make sure the wife gets her jollies otherwise I feel inadequate. As far as taking time it depends on her sometimes she wants a mind blower and some times she wants a few orgasms.

2006-08-12 01:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Its very important But in all honesty in my youth it was all about me and the girls were of secondary importance , that was until I was told and I mean told not asked to slow down and not rush it . I love to have sex in the heavy physical fashion but I find that a little slow caressing followed by a soft oral session sometimes leaves a lady much more receptive to penetration and it also gets rid of all that pent up excitement that can lead to an expiated and somewhat unsatisfying love making experience. so I would say If you want to fulfill your lady you need to fill her senses soft music light fragrances silky sheets smoooth touches and a slow almost lazy tempo

2006-08-12 01:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by slick 4 · 0 0

I'm 48 and let me tell you nothing get me hotter than a woman's orgasm especially by oral......... and that includes a good rimjob.There really is no excitement if you're only into yourself.........unless of course you're taking matters into your own hands when your better half is not around and that's not bad either.

2006-08-12 03:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am 62 and married....I get the most enjoyment out of my wife having an orgasm. When we do make love I try to let her go at least three times. I hope that helps you....Tom

2006-08-12 01:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0 0

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