Ok so there is this guy I was seeing, he broke things off with me to go back to his ex. With in 12 hrs he was back with me. We lasted 3 weeks an he broke up with me for her! Now she is telling me he said a bunch of stuff to her about them that I remember him sayin to me. I told her alot of **** he did behind her back an now I just know he hates me!! I dont want to be with him I just want to prove that I can still have him I guess or maybe I just want to blow him off like he did me. Im really not sure. But for some reason I am worried that I wont ever get the chance to put him in his place. What you guys think? Am I crazy? Why do I want him to try an come back to me? Could it be low self esteem? Help!!
2006-08-12 00:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by dljtr37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sugar Lilly is right, the best way to put him in his place is to dump him and never see him again.Don't give him all of your power don't let him keep running in and out of your life. Make the choice for yourself and leave him alone for good.
2006-08-12 01:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by TIKIBABY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an awful lot of trouble. Why do you want to live in all this drama. You need to stop playing all those stupid games, you end up hurt. Go out and have fun with friends and a new guy will come along when you least expect it. But stop all the" I want him to want me" stuff.
2006-08-12 00:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by michtb3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sounds like he's figured a way to have two girlfriends who know about each other. he sounds very cunning, not only is he not cheating because he breaks up with each girl before he goes to the other but he's also successfully controlling the two of you. now surely you are smarter than that. he's having fun with you two and you're letting him. do you know what the best way to put him in his place is? dump him. for good and then get some one nicer and better looking.
2006-08-12 00:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by sugar_lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all females have done this before. Its kind of an ego thing, to prove that they need us more than we need them. To a certain extent it probably is a result of some self esteem issues. He hurt you and now you want to hurt him back.
2006-08-12 00:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We sometimes want what we can have. He is safe because he will likely never really be yours and playing this game with yourself keeps you from looking at what is really going on. Find someone who can commit to you. He is playing another game with himself. Mindgames suck. Everybody loses in the end.
2006-08-12 00:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is for you to wait until school starts. By then, you will be in second grade, and make all new friends!
2006-08-12 00:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why you do this is that you love him in your heart , but your mind say to you that he is not the ONE. if you want solve your problem it's better to see a psychologist to help you find out what is in your soul.
2006-08-12 00:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know one word callled dignity >>> its matter in this case think over it then decide u r best judge
2006-08-12 00:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to convince yourself that you can't always have whatever you want!
2006-08-12 00:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself and move on. leave these people alone, dont have anything to do with them.
2006-08-12 00:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by burrowthroughanelephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋