i tried a lot but i won't get any thing to speak, can you people suggest me any thing or any topic on which i can speak to her, that will help me out in getting out of this habbit.
2006-08-12 00:27:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your not a chatty person its hard to just talk about anything.
us girls never have a problem with talking and we do like to be able to have a conversation with our men.
you can talk to her about your interests, music, movies, books, places you would like to visit, ask her about her favourite things.
hope this helps.
2006-08-12 00:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my girlfriend had a problem with me speaking way too much, so I think I can help you. Well first of all don't be like me. Keep the comments and stuff about yourself to yourself. I mean I didn't realize it and sometimes I did. But well I spoke way too much about myself, how my day was, how my life is going, what my problems are, never let her talk at all. So well stay away from that unless she directly asks you "So how was your day?" or something like that. And well ask her about her day, ask her about her life, maybe find out more about her family, why she was named the name she is, what languages does she speak, what does she intend to do with her life. Does she plan on going to college, if she does then what will she be majoring in. What plans does she have for the weekend, would she like it if you took a day off of work and just had a whole day of just you and her. what's her fav. flower. Maybe switch it up and talk about your local news, or the world news, or something, find out what she likes the most. And well actions speak louder than words. So well you can also just focus on taking her place and doing stuff with her as well
Really man just try to make questions less about yourself, more about her, and about different aspects in her life and your relationship. You'll do fine, hope I was able to help some.
Good Lucky buddy!!!
2006-08-12 00:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of the abundance of one's heart, so does one speak. You need to have a spirit and a strong set of values, as well as a genuine sense of humor.
You might want to become involved with some causes you believe in or active politically, to the extent that you can if you're a young person.
I do agree that it's important for a young man do dominate the scene with his personality, his speech and a strong demeanor. Beyond this, I don't know what to tell you, although I hope I provided a few clues.
2006-08-12 00:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my friend, before you play the blame game..let me ask you.
What's in your head? Is it full of knowledge or empty like a can?
Before you are able to speak, you must know what to speak.
Else, it'll be empty air..or some would call garbage talk.
Now if you want to impress your girl, fill that empty part of your head with juicy stuff, like news, politics, games, culture, pop and or anything from the net..hei..why else are you here rite?..
Ofcourse with knowledge comes the courage to speak..and that my friend..takes practise..be prepared is also key..
so..here ya go..
Porcu
2006-08-12 00:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by porcu76 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt be that difficult for you to have a conversation with your girlfriend. Conversation should naturally flow. Sounds as if you may not have that much in common. Compatibility goes a loong way in relationships. My suggestion, find someone that you have more in common with.
2006-08-12 01:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my GF was like that also. I'm not a talker myself. But when i tried to ask her questions , I began to know her more , I realize that we have so much in common. My love grew more and more. I admire her. You know what? I'm planning of PROPOSING to her.....
2006-08-12 00:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Toffee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the newspaper and discuss the events. It will also help you improve your English.
2006-08-12 00:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try speaking jibberish, she'll love it!
For me, it just so happens to be my native tongue.
2006-08-12 00:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get lost and look for another.
2006-08-12 00:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Idk just pointless stupid crap.
2006-08-12 00:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋