I have a crush on a guy and he is always talking to my best friend. Read details below?

Question

So i have a crush on one of my classmates but he seems to be always talking to my best friend in class.
They sit with each other in class because the teacher has arranged our class seating arrangements to be that way.
He always seem to be sitting close to her but my best friend doesn't like him . He is always pestering the both of us for her number. But i like him. I am too afraid to tell him i love him or give him a kiss. So please don't ask me to do that. HELP !!!!!!!!!

i am only thirteen and im not old enough to have s** whoever the answerer is who mentioned about it.




i know this guy well and i like everiting bout him.
i dunnoe if he likes me too,.
because once, he said he dared to lick my hands? but that was weird.
he always blushes when i talk to him so how will i noe.
IM STUCK!

Answer 1

It is OK to like someone better than others in your age. when you are a baby, you have no preference on the type of ice cream but as you grow older, you may have a preference for chocolate, strawberry etc, Nevertheless, this is a growing up process of forming choice and forming character. taking that aside more importantly is still your studies as any relationship now is nothing but infactuation and it is likely to doom to fail.

childhood loves affair would not last. only less than 5% unfortunately under our current economic and social lifestyle will make it and carry their childhood love affair into their marriage. And forget about those hollywood, bollywoord and media corps shows, they are all fake.

I am not going to preach to you about what is SXX or love as I think you are still too young.

Such school crush will happen in many of your years up to even when you are 18 years old. But remember, like to talk to one classmate and enjoying each other company in a crowd is your age and remember you are suppose to learn at this age is how to be happy, enjoy social life even with different sexes without the possibility of having anyone special ok. Until you are able to master this ......I am afraid that you would not understand the word of LOVE.

Next, whether your best friend like him or not, you may not know. Children of this age sometimes due to fear of retailation or pressure may says the opposite to you.

So do not get jealous, why worry about him, you have so many boyfriends....girlfriends and most of all goodfriends now. Learn social skills of interaction without INTIMACY and that is the basic part of life

anyway if you have further question that you feel shy to ask in public, you may email me

Bye girl

Answer 2

I think the best way to do this is NOT to tell him anything. If he likes your friend then he's got to find out if she's the one for him. If i were you I would try to be his friend. Surely that's better than nothing. You never know what might happen in a few years time. Sometimes the best relationships are the ones that started as friendships. I have fallen for people that are not accessible - this makes them more appealing! Be his friend - you never know where it will go in the future ....... Good luck.

Answer 3

O.k. basically your 13 don't put to much effort into it.There are tons of other and better things you can be doing right now. I wish I didn't start dating so early. I am glad you realize you are to young for sex. The bible thumper needs to shut up (lokoko girl or something like that) you are in no way commiting a sin. With that being said, just be yourself. There is no better way to go.

Answer 4

Unfortunately at an early age, teens tend to want what they can not have. He can not have your best friend and therefore he thinks your best friend is worth chasing.

If you become friendly with him while he still has feelings for your best friend, he'll ask you how he should win her over. Helping him out does not help you in the end.

Answer 5

Don't be wicked repent and live a pure life. Life is not about sex it is about living and doing what God intended for you to do.

Ask God to transform you, ask Jesus to come into your heart and change into a new creature pleasing to God of heaven.

Rev 22:11 Let evildoers do their worst and the dirty-minded go all out in pollution, but let the righteous maintain a straight course and the holy continue on in holiness."

Answer 6

Why are you in love with a classmate if you're not even 13? And why are there so many underaged participants in Yahoo Answers?

Answer 7

I know you wont like it when I say that you are too young now to find your partner. At 13, we cant really know what we really want. Your view points & your attitude towards life all gets changed as you grow old. Now at this age your Priorities and your yard sticks to find your partner will be different, and we make choices viewing only the externals. Know that We will only have our Soul Mate only once in our life. When you are matured enough , when you have a sober attitude towards life, ask your heart what you want and it will reveal the man who is just right for you.. Now this a season in your life to make foundations for your future life. Now let God be your Only Love, because later in life when you get too busy you will find it hard to love Him with your whole heart. Let God be your priority right now and He will guide you to your soul mate when you come to the right age. Blessings to You.

Answer 8

Just kiss him. What do you have to lose? That's how I told my bf that I wanted to be with him. We've been together for a really long time, ya know? Just go for it. A lot of guys admire a girl that has guts.

Answer 9

It was rude to just say "Get outta my way", theres always a better way of getting what you need then by acting rudely. But if you apologized for the comment then just brush it off, its no big deal.

Answer 10

hey u answereed my question about websites for teens. u indian? well me being a guy, i can say that its possible he likes ur friend and not you. but if he blushes a lot around you it mite be that hes too shy to talk to you and is using ur friend to get to you