i cant do right for doin wrong, i have got 3 bros, an 1 sis , an me an my sis get treated better from outsiders, we all have our own families now an when they want somthing they alll get in touch wiv me,!!!!! why cant i just say NO to them
2006-08-11 23:09:01 · 22 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have 4 children of my own an i dont treat them the way my parents treat me, i love my kids they r my world
2006-08-13 04:53:56 · update #1
I don't treat my kids like crap....I love them!!!
2006-08-11 23:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all parents are like that. You should have worded that different, should have been, why are SOME parents,cause not all parents are that way.
My parents never treated us badly at all, nor did I treat my kids badly either!! We have always had lots of love in our family. Sorry that you didn't, you really missed out on a good thing!!
2006-08-12 08:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe yours do my I certainly don't treat my kids like crap.
My kids have lots of love and least importantly the get spoiled rotton.
They are both under 5 years old and we MAKE them earn there £5 a week pocket money.
They clean there rooms, make there own beds and help out at meal times also help us in the garden.
It's how kids should be brought up and not having everything handed to them on a plate.
That way they learn to appreciate everything in life.
2006-08-12 06:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ GOTH CHICK♫ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you seem to think might be crap, maybe that your's parents actually care my 16 year old thinks i moan all the time at him but i love him and want the best for him.I love my kids and try to teach them the best way in life and not make the mistakes i made.
2006-08-12 07:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take control of your life, they can't demand things from you that you don't want to do or give. They can get by on their own if they really try, a lot of people do.
What does it matter anyway, if you refuse them what's the worst that can happen? Just remember to be polite about it and don't argue, just walk away if they start getting ratty.
2006-08-12 06:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cos u love them and they love you. if its that bad then take out a restraining order on the whole lot of em - that will stop them in their tracks!
Seriously tho, if they are taking advantage it is only because you have said yes in the past - you have trained them to come to you. Tell them no. It is very hard to do but the results will (eventually!) be worth it. They will respect you.
2006-08-12 11:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Allasse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see what you are saying but I think you are being a little bit harsh. Parents do what they do to protect us, yes sometimes they go over board, but so do kids. Give them some slack.
2006-08-15 14:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by megajen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought parents treated their children like piss. The children are formed due to the union of the pissing parts of parents and they come out of the pissing part of a woman (natural delivery). Thus children are waste products. We are all nothing but piss. Phew that smell.
2006-08-12 06:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love my daughter! I treat her like a princess!.
People who treat their kids badly don't deserve them!
2006-08-12 09:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the way most families are. Theres always favourites, and the most anyone hears from any of their family is usually when in need.
2006-08-12 06:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the worst my parents have ever treated me and my sister is making us do chores but we get a dollar for every chore we do so its really not that bad. i think u cant say no to them because u love them
2006-08-12 06:18:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋