I don't know why, but I think I'm into depressed women. Like the ones who feel sad, I want to hold them to comfort them.
Is that normal?
2006-08-11 23:05:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like non-depressed girls too, but they seemed to be taken most of the time.
To: ♥ яetяo ♥
If you are depressed, of course I'll hold you & comfort you.
2006-08-11 23:10:39 · update #1
This is the "knight In Shining Armour" syndrome
Guy's like to fix things,also guy's like to feel needed.
This leads to big trouble with needy women being a headache.
Voice of experience: Never date or get involved with person that has more problems than you have.
2006-08-11 23:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing bad into comforting people....i think you are the kind of guy that is emotional yourself and can be really helpful to those that are passing through difficult times. Try to experience some emotional stuff like depressed children or adults and you can further more your emotional abilites to comfort people not only to women but other people as well. On the other hand its a bit problematic that you like....in the sense you are in love with only depressed women...work a little bit on it. Other women need comforting too in other things and they need to be held too.
2006-08-12 07:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ant ;-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya, bro! I like to help people who feel bad and want to make them happy with love, but most of the ones i know are REALLY depressed, like a blackhole that just sucks in any amount of light you put out. You just have to be careful not to get sucked in as well. I know a few that were actually very pretty but psychologically incapable of doing anything in a loving manner, like kissing or going out on a date. Sometimes my friends are flirting with very attractive girls in wheelchairs (all limbs attached, BTW) and I can see what they like about them. The compassion to help someone in need with more than just medical stuff.
2006-08-12 06:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't have me because although I may be depressed, I'M ALREADY TAKEN! So THERE! I even have a mad side too, but that all goes to Cyrus, not you!
2006-08-13 21:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going after the easy ones. I suspect you'd be the guy they should be avoiding during vulnerable moments.
2006-08-12 06:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Phaedrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose so, dont you like good non-depressed girls as well?
2006-08-12 06:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Hanif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im depressed too?
will u hold me & comfort me?
:(
2006-08-12 06:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Wide Ruled Paper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u see that as your way in, or u just have a big heart. i wouldn't call it weird
2006-08-12 06:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a rape clinic counselor, and you can meet them all
2006-08-19 12:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by beatlepath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋