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Question

i have 2 blades hidden in my room. i have been contemplating cutting my wrists and actually did it once (just to see how it feels). i really want to do it again but if my parents, sister, or friend sees the marks they will get really mad. i told my sister that i did it once and she told me not to do it again but my friend and parents still dont know. should i do it again? what should i do?

Answer 1

no you shouldn't do it again. go and talk to someone. call a help line or something. don't punish yourself because you also punish everyone you love.

Answer 2

i know it will be hard but sit with your freind and tell her what you have done. she will support you in your time of need... as for your parents do the same it may seem like it is imposible to do but like all parents they are there too help they will help you!

Do Not Cut Yourself Again. Throw the blades away and try and keep them away put them in a unretrievable place . the more you cut yourself the more marks you will get the more marks you get the more you will be reminded to cut yourself and then you will not beable to get out of the hole you will dig yourself into.

the marks will not go away after a while and you will be left with scars and you will be reminded of what you have done for a very long time

please tell your parents and seek help as soon as possible cutting yourself and self harm is a serious matter and can sometimes turn into an illness

Answer 3

first of all you should stop imediately and get rid of those blades. never do it again. even if you still want to do it don't, i did the same thing before and trust me things went terribly bad. i did it people found out i tried despelling the rumors but things got out of hand and too hard for me too control you keep cutting someone will find out and it will spread. just stop ok its a horrible thing to do and its hard too stop once you start, if your looking for help talk too a close friend or family member that you know you can trust.
Edit: as the person below me said you can also die from cutting but that happnes very few times its only if the cuts reach deep enough to cut the veins but still stop.

Answer 4

Cutting yourself gives you control of your life write. I mean i did it for about a wek and it felt good. Do it if it makes you feel better. And if you get caught just tell your family it makes you feel good. Or you can go another route. Think about it this is why i stopped doing it. Its really not going to take any of your problems away write(maybe for a very short time) but not forever. So do what ever you can to distract yourself. If someone invites you somewhere say yes. I think the reason you want to cut yourself writenow is because you have a major problem write. Instead of cutting yourself, and dont even dare to kill yourself, do things that make you feel happy. Things that make you feel that you have done something good. So its your decision mask the problem or try to fix it. Do things that make you happy.

Answer 5

cutting isn't the way out of what ever is bring you down. stop cutting and buy a stress ball to relax you feelings. and if your parents find out the will demand that you see some that can help or something like that. it all depends on how your family is. i had a friend that cut and she would sometime fall to the floor during school from cutting. so plz don't do it again.

Answer 6

Hi hon,

to be honest with you, you're worth too much to hurt yourself. You have been created to do great things, no matter what circumstances may seem like now. You are destined for greatness. You should say that to yourself every day, every second you get, because it's true. Life throws you some pretty rotten deals, but don't let anything cloud the fact that you are created for great things, not hurting yourself. Live life each day, but remember that the future holds good things and tomorrow is another day you can influence and change someones life. By you being here, you're one day closer to your bright future.

God Bless you
T

Answer 7

you need to seek immediate help from either a counselor, religious representative, doctor...somebody you can trust. Do you feel a need to feel pain or is it an actual attention getter. The best thing to do is to take those blades and throw them away. If they are smallenough, flush them. The quickest way to get rid of a problem is to get rid of the source.

Answer 8

no you need to get some help theres a reason you are doing this to yourself, your parents i would suspect were more concerned at this than mad they may not understand why you are chosing to do this.... you need to get help if you can't talk to your parents find a trusted adult that you feel comforable with. but i strongly sugesst you get the blades out of your room now.

Answer 9

No you shouldn't do it again. While it seems like life sux some days, nothing in your life can be worth killing yourself (or causing yourself harm). Talk to someone and I gurantee you'll feel better. They have lots of numbers you can call or maybe you need to post more questions about your problem and people on here can help you answer them.

Answer 10

Instead of cutting maybe you should see a therapist to help you stop the urge to self mutilate yourself. I am a cutter and my psychiatist has been able to help me with my obsession to cut with medications and therapy. Give psychiatry or a therapist a try they can be helpful to you in the long run.

Answer 11

you shouldn't do it again and you should get help. you obviously have something going on in your life and you need to talk to someone about it. i hope everything works out for you. there are people out there who can help you. and there are people in the world who care about you even if you think there aren't. good luck with everything. don't cut yourself. there are so many good things in life. i know it may not seem like it right now but it will be better eventually.