Should a women make a move on a man or should they wait for the man to make the move on them?
2006-08-11 21:29:25 · 31 answers · asked by pinky p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you go girl
What is wrong with women making a move towards men
Some men are actually pretty blind towards your other signals so a direct approach would probably be best with them.
2006-08-11 21:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For me the men should make the first move because men always think that women should do everything first when it would be good that the guys should do that, Guys should make the girls feel like they are not always at the guys service all the time
2006-08-11 21:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think the man should make the first move. But in todays world, its natural for the girl to make the first move.
2006-08-11 21:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Making the first move would mean that women can't filter confident men from non-confident men - if you are really liberated and self supported, you certainly will decide for yourself. Most women want the more aggressive types, and by making the first move, won't be so certain of this.
2006-08-11 21:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Chris cc 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's alright to make the first move if you are a girl. Most guys would be VERY HAPPY for the girls to make the first move.
Some guys would be a little intimidated, but these guys often are too intimidated to make the first move themselves.
A few (nasty) guys might see it as a sign that you are really keen and then they might treat you bad.
Feel free to make the first move, but at the first sign of dodgy biz you should dump'em or at least declare your intention to dump'em if it continues.
2006-08-11 21:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can make the first move, we all have equality, some guys a just shy and never get arround to asking, if no one made the first move, there would be no relationships at all
2006-08-11 22:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by kingpaulii 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 2, obviously society thinks man got to make the first move, but why womens cant?
2006-08-11 21:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by mrs. cookie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is absolutely prfectly alright in fact i recommend it you will find that you may end up happier than your friends that won't,it eliminates a man's tension automaticallymaking it easier to know the real him faster so that you can tell if you are really compatible,life;s to short to ponder stupid things like that be comfortable in your own skin know what makes you happy and waste no time inachieving it andif things dont pan out have no regrets for that isnt happiness just get a new happy goal and go for it why waste your life worrying about stuff you have no control of and do what you know best be you
2006-08-11 21:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by allen_ralston_belmont 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES YES it is VERY right for women to make the first move... it means to a guy you like them, and not simply tollerating them...
It also gets rid of confusion and lets the guy relax that if he tries to kiss you or let you know how he feels you wont bit his head off, knee him in the nuts, have him arrested for stalking, being a perve, trun everyone against him, stop being a friend and all the other things you girls do simple as a guy happend to like you as more then a mate...
Plus nobody tells us guys what to do and you are sooo picky so its VERY hard to work out what to say to a girl so you are not cut down in two seconds and blow it...
Plus there are sooooo many very unhappy lonly people out there who miss out on soul mates including the girls due to loonley tune notions of rules of dating...
If you like someone go for it, its also very sexy for guys for you to do so.
Only a **** would not like it...
It also makes a guy more honest for you as feelins he does not have to impress you or loose you so bad so can be himself as thats what you liked...
This does not mean he wot be romantic, just means he does not have to say he is a part time firemans and aged wghatever to get you to give him a chance
2006-08-11 21:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
its ok for a women to make the first move
2006-08-11 21:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by SHINE 071371 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋