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Hi,
This is Robinka. I am a girl reading in class eight. I am doing hardwork on my study with the aim of being a sucessful doctor. I have got 88% in my exam before one month. But, when i said my father that my aim is to be a doctor, he said no and told me that i will be a international business man because he is also international business man. In one side their is my dream and in another side their is my father's advise. So tell me which one to choose!

2006-08-11 20:11:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference Other - Education

11 answers

I'm guessing you're not in the middle east, or your chances of becoming either are relatively small. I'm guessing you're in a western country but with Eastern parents. I would suggest, considering you're quite young, that you keep plugging along, doing as well as you can until you're older at which point you will be better equipped to make an informed decision and your father may have relaxed his plans for you, or you may not even want to be a doctor anymore. No point getting into an argument about something so far in the future. Do as well as you can now, so all possible avenues are open to you. Best of luck.

Jen

2006-08-11 20:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna_OZ 2 · 0 0

there is no longer something inherently incorrect with being wealthy or working to make an excellent sort of money. It does look fairly depressing for him to spend daily, year after year at a job he hates. How is that much less uninteresting than "having a kin and a job you savor?" This guy would have grand plans for the destiny, however the destiny isn't assured. He won't stay to be seventy 5 and stand on the balcony of his eye-catching mansion. If he's working problematic to be wealthy, how lots time will he be waiting to spend together with his kin? families and pals do no longer decide on banks--they decide on people who love them. If contained in the technique of turning into wealthy he distances his pals and kin, then he would or won't sense so happy together with his textile success contained in the tip. Riches come and circulate--basically verify out the international economic gadget--so money is a shaky objective. As for no count number if this sort of guy is a fool, nicely, somebody would be very smart yet nonetheless be a "fool" in different factors of life. Now, there are people who artwork problematic and take care of solid relationships with others, and discover time to savor life so it somewhat is truthfully conceivable. To me it ought to look silly and selfish to make riches by myself the final purpose, even nevertheless it is not me that this guy could answer to. He can do what he likes, yet would desire to take finished reponsibility for the outcomes, solid or undesirable.

2016-09-29 04:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I think you are still young, and by the time you finish high school, you will have a good idea about what you really will study at University. For now try your best to do well in all the subjects. You will need to make a decision at the right time... and your dad can advice you, but you are the one to choose.

2006-08-11 20:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

From the U.S.A perspective, you can say "SCREW" your father, but if you are from any country where children respect their perents idear, then you dont have to just tell your father "screw you" like some people in this house has advised. put your mind in where your tallent is, and your father will be conviced. Afterall, a Doctor who is talented and a good talented business person will always eat and be satisfied.

2006-08-11 20:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by G.I noel 3 · 0 0

do business, be successful and make enough $ so that then you can live off your savings for when you go back to persue your dream of being a [medical] doctor.... that is, if it's really your life-long dream, then it will still be so years later...

that way you please both your father and yourself... think, delayed gratification...

OR

you can always just follow YOUR dream... but remember, it's going to be a lot of hard work, especially if you don't count with your father's support [monetary, and emotional] but if you really want it, you'll find a way to make it happen....

good luck deciding
=)

2006-08-11 20:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 0 0

You can't be a business man you are a GIRL so guess that just leaves doctor.

2006-08-11 20:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by mickeymaz 3 · 0 0

Keep reading, but read about medicine also. Oh, and work on your spelling! He's your Daddy, you must know how to play him by now, he may come around if you just stand your ground and follow your brain instead of his!

2006-08-11 20:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well it depends

If your in America than say screw you i will be what I want to be.

If your in the middle east, it may be safer to be a business women.

2006-08-11 20:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0 0

a doctor .... in what ?
a business man ..... what business ?

first answer these questions
next come back if you still dont know

2006-08-11 20:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 0 0

tell ur father screw you!
i'll become whatever i want to

2006-08-11 20:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by booyah™ 7 · 0 0

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