I'm having such a hard time with avoiding bad women. It seems that every girl that I meet is only interested in being bad, even the nicer looking ones. To me I've found that the nicer ones are the worst, are all women this way ?
I'm not naive, I was just raised differently, and with a good family, and everytime I'm put in a situation with friends I always see the girls doing everything they can to be bad. I work and go to college, and go to church. So I have a pretty wide view of the women around me, it Is not just in one place.
I sometimes struggle with being a good guy, I want to be with these girls, but the only way to be with them, is to be bad, and I dont want to change who I am. My worst fear is having to wait until I'm near 30 before I find a girl that has grown up, and odds are she was probably out being bad, before she decided to be good.
I guess I'm jumping ahead of myself, but there doesn't seem to be very many good women left.
2006-08-11 19:44:15 · 13 answers · asked by Jim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Brother-they are out there, I assure you! Are you spiritual? Try praying to God and asking him for the woman he has chosen for you. It won't happen in your timing but in his...and stay away from the "bad girls" for they will only shred you into little tiny peices and rob you of your sanity each and every time. Please don't change who you are either, because the right girl will love you for who you are-not what she wants you to be. Good Luck!
2006-08-11 19:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by vhcsmamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of good women out there you're just looking in the wrong places go to a library, coffee shop, or something like that.
Just keep looking I'm pretty sure you'll find someone before you're 30, just don't be overly picky, you can be picky about the bad thing just make sure you get with a girl that will like you for you and will not make you feel as though you have to change.
GOOD LUCK!
* Life: Live It Well *
2006-08-11 19:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, there are many women out there that can be right for you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and when you get to know a girl don't judge her looks, but her character. Sometimes not the best looking girls are the sweetest things in the world, because they know what its like on the outside looking in. Maybe you should get out more and take a break from dating. You have college to worry about along with your job. When you're done with college, work on your profession and one day you'll find the right girl. Good Luck ♥
2006-08-11 19:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ The One You Love To Hate♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're out there. Good people 'do' exist. I've even met a few believe it or not. So they're not just a myth. I even like to think I fall into that category. I hope you don't try to change who you are or the way you are to get with these girls that don't measure up. Just keep looking. Etc etc. All that inspirational talk that everyone will say. Seriously though, don't change how you do things or lower your moral standards. Just keep looking. You'll find her.
2006-08-11 19:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem. I'm starting to think about looking outside of the city or even the united states. The women are more classy in some southern places or foreign countries.
2006-08-11 19:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it helps there are also women out there wondering where all the good men are.... and wondering if they will have to wait till 30 to find one.
try to be happy being single... i know it sounds funny, but if you run around thinking "i need a girl" then you feel incomplete... if you think of it as a blessing you will feel complete.
2006-08-11 20:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by miss chemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, same problem here except reverse. I think there's a lot of pressure to be... "rebellious" by being just like everyone else. And if you don't do all kinds of weird, "bad" things, people think you're just stupid. But I don't really care, I'd rather someone THOUGHT I was stupid than actually BE stupid like them!
2006-08-11 19:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking the good girls are out there.
2006-08-11 19:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by dani_200042 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the good ones are taken
2006-08-11 19:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u r looking in the wrong places, you should of looked my way two years ago, i'm one of the nice ones, too bad.
2006-08-11 19:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋