we've been going out for 6 months, were crazy about each other..thinking about our future and getting married and everything..but now my bf like NEVER calls me or text me.. but when we do talk its only for like five minutes and then he says brb and he'll call me back but he never calls me back... and when i call him hes either busy or eating.. and i feel abandoned and feel that we're not even going out anymore, but he says he loves me, does he really mean it?. And theres this guy i know who really really likes me and i like talking to him and he makes me happy but i dont really feel what i felt with my bf...what should i do? im like confused and everything... i dont know if im still in love with my bf or not
2006-08-11 19:25:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here what you do make a good and bad list about your boyfriend and be honest about the lsit.If you have more bads then goods then this relationship has come to an end and six months is a little early to talk about a marriage .I say make this list,don't talk to him for a few days so you can clear your head,decide what you want and go after it.
2006-08-11 19:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious your bf has lost interest in you if he acts this way. He says he loves you but I doubt he really does. Perhaps he says this so as to not hurt you too much but by doing this he is being selfish and dishonest to the both of you. Confront him and get him to tell the truth about how he feels about you.
If the second guy likes you alot and you like talking to him, and he makes you happy, give him a chance and let time decide. You might be surprised as to where this might lead to. Sometimes the unexpected leads to a better thing. Slowly as you get to know this second guy more, you'll soon forget your bf. Good luck.
2006-08-11 20:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by skwsith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly me as a guy answering this one, i actually save employer and private separate, however whilst it includes employer its in simple terms approximately a precedence while on occasion i've got faith i've got already got my woman in a suited place the place she's not a lot a necessity to call (to not sound like an *** however..) and additionally i've got in no way been a huge guy or woman whilst it got here to creating calls non the less that is going so some distance as employer or perhaps close acquaintances ...i'm extra of a you call me will chat if i omit it i will return the call.. yet i would not say he isn't into you if that replaced into the case he'd in simple terms go away you...the way you describe him he sounds kinda like an a hollow...and if its been 3 years and you do not know him yet and nonetheless do not have confidence him i could somewhat in simple terms end the relationship because it form of feels you have been attempting to maintain it alive....newho good luck..
2016-10-01 23:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its seems that he is just trying to get away from u a little by a little that way it wouldnt really hurt u if he broke up wit u out of no where.. just see wat happens day by day and if he still acts like that well then u know that it aint going to work out anymore.. and if ur having feelings for another guy well then u dont really have ur b/f on ur mind all the time..just think of what u are going to do wit ur relationship be4 u break up wit him and u might regrat it later.. good luck..
2006-08-11 19:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he's that into you anymore. You should dump him and leave him alone. Maybe he'll miss you. Maybe he'll move on. But either way it's better than him leading you on like he is now.
2006-08-11 19:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Erin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think honestly your boyfriend is being shady and selfish! You deserve better than that and you shouldn't waste your time with it. He's waiting on you to get tired of the crap and you break up with him so he won't look like the bad person in the relationship.
2006-08-11 19:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Marie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess ethier he found someone else or he dont got time for you but if i was your bf you wouldnt have to worry bout nothing i have this deep feeling about girls all yall need love and icould give love to you
2006-08-11 19:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by thug_shyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully, i think your bf has moved on with his life. i know this has to hurt and i hate to be a killjoy, but it sounds to me like he has either lost interest or found someone else, and it's probably the latter of the two. dump his *** before he does it to you!
2006-08-11 19:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall just getting past the puppy love that's all
2006-08-11 19:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by GUESS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i think you bf i has cheated you, he is ignoring you becouse now he feel bored with u, if yuo like i can be be yours friend
2006-08-11 19:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by arun mainka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋