When ever I am in the mood to have sex all my hubby won'ts to do is sleep. How can I put him in the mood. Is it bad when the women wants it all the time and the man dosen't. It is starting to hurt my feelings and before you say it,Yes I have told him this. Thanks for any help you may be able to give me.
2006-08-11 19:23:08 · 20 answers · asked by Shell 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Most men want it all the time. You sure he is not a chronic masturbator? If he is, try to get him to let you join in...
Whatever it is, talk to him about it. Marriage should be about communication and compromise...
And if he don't wake up... dump the boring loser! There are plenty of interesting men out there who actually like sex...
2006-08-11 19:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Tonks_Fan! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You arent alone in the way you feel. I have experienced the same thing. This is one of the most common relationship questions. I have actually answered a few questions like this and I highly recommend talking to someone about it. Check out what I had to say to some other women and what they had to say too. You can view it here, I think it will really help you get a grasp on it. Also, sign up for Dr. Laura Berman's Passion File Newsletter for some great expert advise. Its free. Here is the link. I hope this helps you out.
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2006-08-11 19:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poetic Justice.
2006-08-11 19:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Saint CaRooo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow um... well if ur giving the regular signs and its not working, guys like it when ur forcful somtimes, like push him down and pull off his pants and suck it, if hes still not in the mood he has issues.
2006-08-11 19:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me and I asked and asked for marriage counseling. He didn't agree to that until I fell in love with someone else. It was too late. Maybe you could tell him this story. Maybe he won't make you wait for years for counseling.
2006-08-11 19:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by audrey613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand your dilema. I have the same problem. What I did was ask him point blank, what I could do instantly to my body (nude or clothed) to turn him on. It worked once, and I'll use it again.
2006-08-11 19:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is a medical problem? Maybe he needs to live a healthier life style, does he drink a lot?
2006-08-11 19:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by admyr75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you comming out and saying "lets do it"
if not he may not even know you are in the mood...
make sure he knows you are in the mood....
if then that doesn't work talk to him.
2006-08-11 19:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's entertaining himself with Rosey Palmer.
2006-08-11 19:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah there's nothing wrong with wanting it more often then he does... the only time when my husband avoids sex is when he is not feeling well. you don't have to be sexy. its as simple as making his favorite dish, watching a game with him, or just making him feel good (pumping his ego up)- after wards his attentions is all yours.
2006-08-11 19:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋