My boy friend cofessed me that he is a crossdresser. So, I am totally upset. I suspected that something was wrong with him even before he mention it because he was such a cute one and lovely one. I felt like I am with another girlfriend other than with a boyfriend. Do you girls have a crossdresser boy friend? If you have what do you think of him. Is he nice? I don't know whether to approve this. And it is his birthday, next week. Sometimes, I think I should accept him as he is. And, I consider giving him some clothes he love for his birthday. (What is your adea about it.)If you think what I am gonna do is Ok. Can you suggest me what kind of clothes I must buy for him as a present?
2006-08-11 19:08:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i dunno if thats a good thing wen ur bf feels like a gf......but thats just me i guess
2006-08-11 19:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by chica 4 God 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband of 4 years is a crossdresser and told me before we married. I think the thing that needs to be upfront the most is being HONEST about it. Being able to be open about it is the best thing. It does kind of bring out there feminine side. There are definetly positive things about it. They are better at shopping. If you care for this person then it shouldnt be a problem, the thing is it isnt publicly agreed upon. Some think of crossdressers as being gay, and this isnt always true, youll find that out the more you research it. You can definetly inhance your lovemaking with him dressed in the bedroom. My hubby prefers something lacey and silky, and if you both wear it, it is even more exciting..Also remember sometimes guys do not intend for this to happen to themselves it is just an issue that they have, we all have issues and the best partner is the one that accepts those issues. Good Luck and I wish you the best, you may have an awesome expereince tonight!!!
2006-08-13 09:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by 9929 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as dressing is all he does and not having sex with other men then it doesnt matter. if he treats you well then stick with him. i dont know anyone whos a crossdresser personally but i dont think id care. go shopping with him.
2006-08-12 02:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him and want to be with him then i guess except it...but thats something that's hard to accept...if you were planning on making a life with him such as marriage and kids. that wouldnt be healtly for the kids to see. Umm i guess it could also be good if you were kinda bi.
2006-08-12 02:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by kdboo4u2cherish 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Id give him a black fish net T shirt ,and find out weather he is a bisexual or not,
2006-08-12 02:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_peeved 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop, look and listen, he is not for a woman not for any reason. Let him go find a man that is what he wants and disires and you find a real man.
2006-08-12 02:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I DONT MEAN TO BE HARSH..BUT YOUR B/F IS PROBABLY GAY...GUYS THAT DRESS LIKE GIRLS PROBABLY WANT TO BE GIRLS PERIOD
2006-08-12 02:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋