I've seen talkative american people... and really i dont feel i fit in with them. I can't catch up with what they say.. i don't understand all these topics they talk about... like, i don't have experience with any of that, i'm just a shy guy and i'm pretty lacking in all SOCIALY related topics. So if i had a girlfriend, will it only work if she's kind of quiet and similar to me? Yes i've heard some of you guys say that ""it doesn't matter".. but seriously, it does.. You outgoing girls want guys who can at least understand what you're saying.. but we unsocials,,, don't really know alot of stuff that you guys know.
2006-08-11 19:00:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Huh !!!!!!!!
2006-08-11 19:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by john l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if two people in a relationship were unsocial then that would be a pretty boring relationship. There are many people, men and women that like having a quiet partner so that they can do all the talking. But, usually the nonsocial one comes out of their shell on occasion to surprise their mate and that can keep the fire burning for many years. Good luck to you and God bless.
2006-08-12 02:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the lack of speaking skills that is your problem, but rather your lack of interest in other people and the things they are interested in.
When you don't understand what others are talking about, ASK. Next time you will know and be able to converse about it and even enjoy the interchange with other people.
You could probably find a girl that is like you and hook up with her, but I don't think you will be an interesting and popular couple. You'll be loners and may even become anti-social misanthropes (people who hate all other people).
2006-08-12 02:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Hi y´all ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just some advice... get up and do something to meet girls...then let it be known that you are a shy guy... i am in love with a guy that cant write really well...but i love him..cause he is a sweet, caring, oh well i could go on all day...it doesn't matter if you are shy or not..if the girl likes you for you..i don't see the problem...and yes i've seen girls that talk like 10 times faster then your average cheerleader that date people that don't talk at all...so good luck with that>
2006-08-12 03:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i personaly like outgoing guys and talkative guys, but i think that not all women need to be like you to make it work.
2006-08-12 02:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter if u r social wit other pple if a girl likes u she likes u 4 wat u r not bcoz u r social wit other ppledoesnt mean that u cant have a social girl
2006-08-12 02:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by aint I beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhhhh i hope so .
2006-08-12 02:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by krazy miss speler 06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-08-12 02:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋