This guy and I have been spending alot of time together, really enjoying each other's company, also laughing and have a real strong connection and chemistry. He is also very thoughtful, respectful, and considerate of me. That is why I like him. He took me to his company's Xmas party, I met most of his friends, he met my friends, he took me to his friend's baby showers, his friend's wedding, he used to call alot too. We laugh all the time when we are together and have our own little jokes.
.But over this past 1.5 months, all of a sudden he his so distance, cold, and not as respectable and considerate. He rarely calls or write email to me anymore, and sometimes I feel he does not respect me. He plans his own activity and rarely include me in them.
I am very confused. We seemed to be very good and I think he likes me a lot, and now all of a sudden he is soo different.
I am very confused and sad , and don't know what to feel or do?
2006-08-11 18:41:45 · 5 answers · asked by Milleniumsky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well- maybe he has gotten cold feet- has he said he loves you?? talked about a future together- mmmm- you can wait it out and see if he calls- if you play hard to get- and not needy - he may come around. Maybe the new has worn off. Look at his past relationships and how they went- and ended. He may not be into longterm- or be risky and flat oout call him and ask - whats up.
2006-08-11 18:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it s so painful to know esp if u already fall for him but the heart of the matter is that he stopped being what he used to be...what does it imply? maybe he liked u, enjoyed ur comapany...can u think of any possibility of his waning interest in u? how about talking to him what went wrong? or painful to know he is done with u....or he finds u not anymore interesting however if it s really cracking u...u must make clarification, maybe he has his own reason too....afterall ud been gud buddies...but whatever comes out at the end ....just be on urclf and continue to do happy things....ur smiles doesnt stop for just a reason......that man.....
2006-08-12 01:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by narjhianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, most of the time when this happens it means he's got someone else on his mind. When a guy is distant from you they are close to someone else. I'm really sorry for any hurt you may go thru. Heartbreak is hard.
2006-08-12 01:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Eugene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to him personally, tell him about your feelings for him...perhaps in that way you could really tell him what you are feeling right now....its not being so obvious but its being strong to what you are feeling now...whatever his anwers will be, you will have to accept it, anyway that's being braved...you should focused on your self, if he's been so cold to you lately, then don't show him that you are hurting inside while he is doing that to you. remember that everybody hurts, sometimes, but just have to accept it....
2006-08-12 01:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by glenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll answer you question right after I dropkick you like Chuck Norris...
He's a jerk
2006-08-12 02:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋