Do u believe in teenage love? do u really think it could last a life time?.. cuz im 16 and me and my b/f have been together for 7 months and yeah we do have some downs like any other relationship would have,, but other than that its been great.. i love him a lot.. and i know for sure that he does too but should i really get my hopes up of spending my life wit him like getting married wit him..?
2006-08-11 18:25:38 · 33 answers · asked by pixiejvgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the sex part is good. can do without the drama.
2006-08-11 18:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by ricky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think teenage love is wonderful!! Most of the time it doesn't work out. It's rare but sometimes it can last forever. I know a couple that have been together since middle school. They finished high school, got married, and now they have the most gorgeous baby girl I have ever seen. So even though numbers say you won't make it, I wouldn't give up hope; but know that the world isn't over if you two split up. That's just the way most people have it. Good luck.
2006-08-11 18:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take things one day at a time. i'm glad you are so happy. boys and girls are both quite immature at this age and don't know what they'll want in the long term. but it's not impossible that you will stay together. This time in your life is very important in establishing your future relationships with him or other men. It is how you learn how to have a relationship and what you want. but it's not impossible that you will stay together. i'm 24 and i am only recently realizing what i really want in life and from men. i've had a ton of boyfriends since being 16. even if things don't work out, you will learn a ton of important stuff about what you want and don't want in life, from this relationship. but i wouldn't expect anything either way with him. just enjoy things how they are now
And yes, PLEASE do not get pregnant! Children complicate everything and are almost guaranteed to make a young man run away from the relationship. Not to mention children deserve to grow up in the best situation possible.
2006-08-11 18:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i do believe in teen love! Anyone can fall in love. Just because Teenagers are supposivly "too young" doesnt mean they dont know what love is when they have been with someone for 7 months. Live life and dream. Even though you might not get married to that person doesnt mean you cant dream right?
2006-08-11 18:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
teenage love is very real....i've been with my bf for a year now and i have never felt this way about anybody before..i just made 18 last month and before i met him i just knew i would never get married because no one was "right" for me but when i met him it seemed my world was at peace......like everything that was wrong wasnt all that bad.....i knew it was love when i never wanted to be without him and i couldnt really remember what i did before him. i kno he is the "ONE" and i will be with for the rest of our lives.....dont rush in to anything because u want it to work, if it was meant to be it wont need to be forced but if u believe he is the one, dont be afraid to put some work into the relationship and dont let anyone kill your hopes...good luck
2006-08-11 18:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by keldog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt. Both of you are going to experience a lot of life changing events over the course of the next ten years. Most colleges have living arangements for married couples. You can grow together, or do it on your own. I wish there was a crystal ball to tell you there was a specific answer. Unfortunately, there isn't.
2006-08-11 18:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Whetherman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh Teenage love!! Nothing like it in the world, I have wonderful memories of teenage love! Odds are against it lasting, but I know people who have made it last. Enjoy it now and you never know what the future may hold, Good Luck!
2006-08-11 18:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by blonde mom70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
teenage love is one of the best things in life in my opinion, once you get older its more drama, moving in together, buills, divorce, get to complicated when you are young you should just enjoy eachother without moving too fast, thats what normally ends a good relationship and you will allways remember it, because i will always remember my 1 st love/ relationship, so really dont stress about this so soon, just enjoy eachother, if you are still together dowewn the road, you will see it because both of you are going to change dramatically in the next few years
2006-08-11 18:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by ula 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U know I spent 5 years with my boyfriend in high school and we split about a year after I got out. When I got older I was mad at myself that I spent all my time with one person.
You are young and that's the time you should go out with other people and enjoy doing new and different things.
It's when you get older that you are limited to what you can do so you really should take advantage of being young.
2006-08-11 18:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, i guess when your at about the grade of 12 things might be gettin more serious like that
but grd 8 or 9 or 10. i dont think that should b in question.
2006-08-11 18:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel sometimes when your with that person you feel like you control the world and your safe but dont get too attached i dont think your man is probably all that concerned about marriage at the age of 16
2006-08-11 18:28:58 · answer #11 · answered by Je t'aime ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋