2006-08-11 18:06:57 · 20 answers · asked by Tim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is the thing and why does she feel you have to buy it for her...why can't she buy it herself...you don't have enough details in your question to get a real answer.
2006-08-11 18:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if she buys you expensive gifts too. A relationship is all about putting in equal portions. You cant feel as though you are putting in more and your mate isn't and often in relationships these portions are expressed strongly in gifts. So it would be only right to try to buy it for her. (i don't mean take out a loan or anything! Lol!) but if she doesn't buy you things and expects you just to cater to her than she is in the relationship for one thing and she doesn't deserve you and I give you mad props for being a gentlemen and even considering buying an expensive gift but drop her behind like a bad habit. remember 50/50 though!
2006-08-12 01:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Judeka A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is real simple. If she demands something from you and you give in than she wins and will continue to win when ever she wants something. There are boundaries that a couple should never cross at an early stage and if it is about money than she may be a gold digger in the making. Is she worth the effort or is it just the physical thing you want. If there is no substance in the relationship than you might as well let her cry about not getting what she wants. her actions will tell you if if she is worth your time or not.
2006-08-12 01:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by minion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether the very expensive thing she wants is more expensive than a reasonably priced hooker of the same looks and caliber. Since you are already with a prostitute, just find one that offers a little better deal. Your ex- needs to hustle her butt out on the boulevard for a while to get a realistic notion of how much it is worth
2006-08-12 01:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by lickherisquicker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is more proof you should NOT buy her whatever it is.
Most girls/women are materialistic to a degree (that means that "objects" are more important to them than just spending time with you, etc). Some are not so bad though. You want to find one that isn't very materialistic.
Laugh at her and get rid of her. You will regret it if you stay with her.
2006-08-12 01:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Edward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was mad at you over that then i would dump her and move on she is obviosly a woman that loves you for your money. love comes from the heart not the wallet. dude seriously that is the best advice you will hear dont go for a gold digger there the ones that will have kids with you just for the child support
2006-08-12 01:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by funluvenguy2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, I need more information to answer this question. For instance, what did she want? And how, exactly, did you turn her down? These are important things to consider. Is she normally gracious and she's being unreasonable about this one thing? Tell me more or I can't help you.
2006-08-12 01:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to grow up! You shouldn't have to buy her anything you can't afford. If she cares for you then material things wouldn't matter to her and she should understand if you can't get her what she wants. Until she stops being a big baby you shouldn't get her anything all.
2006-08-12 01:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yeah, if you value your life the way it is I would. Do you know how long a woman can hold a grudge and be mad at you for something like that?
My husband learned long ago, if I want it, he better damn well get it.
2006-08-12 01:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it is out of ur budjet she needs to understand that, tell her nicely to try and find sumthin thats in ur budget that she likes, cuz girls dont really think about the money when they aint paying 4 it themselves, i had a gf like that, i eventually broke up with her cuz there was no changing that, but i hope that doesnt happen 2 u, best of luck man
2006-08-12 01:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by wolfmdogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you, you shouldn"t have to by her love. If you do it is not true love on her part. I think I would think about that real hard. You shouldn't have to spend more that you can afford just to prove anything to her. It looks like you have a gold digger on your hands. I know that sounds harsh And I am sorry if I offended you with my answer. God Bless you.
2006-08-12 01:15:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋