k, theres this girl and i noe she likes me and i like her too but the problem is she's Extremly shy and whenever im around she gets all quiet and well... shy, what can i do 2 make things more.. comfortable for her? (ive tried talking but it doesnt work)
2006-08-11 18:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by JM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let her know that its okay to talk and not to be shy, and then find out her favorit things and plan a day where you both could spend time to do her favorit thing. ask her friends and her family if your that close to her. if you want her to open up more then try to let her know by showing her that you do care,and buy her little gifts to show her that you really do care about. let go and ask youself this question, do you realy lke her cause once she opens up to you and is not shy in front of you any more are you planning to be with her and not hurt her in any way.
2006-08-11 18:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by navajonationlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the worse thing you could do would be to try to take your relationship with her too far too fast. First, assess the situation in more detail. Think about these questions.
1.Do you really know she likes you?
2.Is she just as quiet around everyone else as she is around you?
If you answered yes to both questions, it's time to move on, but slowly..
Even if you're not shy at all, make yourself seem a little vulnerable by talking about a recent situation that was awkward or stressful for you (if you add a joke in it, it will be even better.) Sure, you'll be making conversation, but you'll also be expressing yourself in a way that might make her more apt to do the same, since she'll stop holding things in just as you didn't hold in your stressful situation. It's a good way to break the ice.
Introduce her to your friends if you haven't already. Don't be too outgoing, or it will probably make her feel like an outcast. If you go to school with her, ask her if she'll come over to do school work with you.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-12 01:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by ioncayah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what her interests are. Since you tried talking, do you know any of her friends/family? Find out from them what she enjoy doing. Even though she is shy, it seems that she has shown you that she likes you also. Are other people around when you talk to her? If so, talk to her when you two are alone. Ask her to do something with you that she enjoys for a short period of time (1 hour). For example, go to the park - in the park you can walk and feed the birds and talk about the scenery. How old is she? How old are you? Since I do not know more about the situation...be prepared to talk, talk and talk, tell jokes, sing, etc. Eventually she will talk and even allow you to hold her hand. Good Luck!
2006-08-12 01:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing u could do is ask her for her #. she would probably rather talk to u by the phone instead of having u looking straight into her eyes cuz that gets a gurl even more nervous.
2006-08-12 01:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know she likes u, get her #. Talk to her on da phone and soon she''ll won't be shy anymore
2006-08-12 01:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her email and IM each other first then or take Marcus's suggestion too.
2006-08-12 01:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee...
ask her.
have you tried talking to her alone?
or well...
mentioning that you like her too and there's no need to be shy?
2006-08-12 01:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her notes untill you to warm up to each other thats how I got my girl
2006-08-12 01:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by marcus k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye, I agree with marcus
2006-08-12 01:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋