i love this girl but she dosent love me back what should i do
2006-08-11 17:39:09 · 15 answers · asked by BeemoRocks 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... the thing about love is this:
once you're in love, you're in love.
what you seek, as I once did, was a simple solution.
an "easy" button... like in the STAPLES comercials...
unfortunately, there isn't one.
and I mean it. I really wish there was one.
...
my advice is this:
don't give up. ever.
ignore everybody out there who tells you to give up.
you're in love. you know how it feels, and you don't want to do it, so don't.
you need to make her understand how you feel
you need to inspire affection in her...
if you speak spanish, a word for that emotion, which better fits there is carin~o. (sorry dude... can't quite get the foreign symbols on this computer anymore... that tilde goes OVER the "n")
it's a starting point.
you shouldn't ever try to force a woman to do anything. it doesn't work so well... at least in my experienece....
so you can nudge her a bit... but I'd not recomend doing what you really want to do... which
if i understand your curent predicament, is this:
you want to take her by the shoulders and shake her untill she understands it.
you want her to be empathic.
now I ask you this:
is she at all empathic towards your love
...
or failing that, simpathetic?
'cause if she is, all you have to do is ride it out... and follow your instincts.
if not...
is she in love with somebody else?
that can be redirected.
it's hard...
but it can be done.
I'm not the person to help with that. I have no experience there.
I've never done it.
has she never loved before?
here's where I get poetic
show her the stars
give her the moon
show her your love
give her your heart
take her with you:
your heart's desire
and if she does not
give you her heart
in exchange
but burried it,
then you must find it
and dig it up
hold it in your hand
but give it to her.
for it is her heart
and freely to be given
or else for that not love but pain
so find for her, her heart
and perhaps, she'll give it to you
as you have given her your own.
for you love her.
and there is nought else you can do.
but love her.
good luck.
good love
and sweep her off her feet.
2006-08-11 17:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you can't MAKE someone love you...so this is kinda hard, but your going to have to find someone who will love you back, even if it means forgetting about the one you love. Move on, go hang out with some other people...meet other girls...who knows, you might just find someone who you love more...and she'll love you back. Life is too short to be sitting around waiting for someone who doesn't love you back. Find someone who will love you right...and treat you right. Guys deserve to be loved just as much as girls...you seem like a pretty nice guy...dont' be too nice and move on!! Good Luck!
2006-08-12 00:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nanner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who will love you back.
2006-08-12 00:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by joyell222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so difficult. To love someone that doesn't love you is so painful and my best advise to you is to not even pursue that relationship. In the end, you'll be the only one getting hurt. Spare your heart sweetie. Trust me, been there done that and i still bare the scars.
2006-08-12 00:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lene B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You can't make someone love you back. I wish I could.
Ever hear the song "Two Out of Three Ain't bad" by Meatloaf? It's an oldie.......
2006-08-12 00:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by iamjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you cannot make someone love you back, and you do not want to be with someone who does not love you as well. You know what you should do, even though you may not like it.
2006-08-12 00:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up, cause it isn't happening. Sorry that is just reality. Reality bites. Sometimes. Good Luck. You'll find someone when you aren't looking!
2006-08-12 00:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste you time on someone who doesn't return your love. Move on and find that special someone. If she doesn't love you now then she won't love you later.
2006-08-12 00:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all details u guys going out???or what?? second of all if she doesnt like u? is it becuase u havent talked to her??? or what if u do talk to her and alot or often than she doesnt srryb ut its true.. move on.. or u could try harder.. and tell her u do.. and she might like ya..? but if u dont talkt o her or anything do it! and flirt.. then she might get a hint but if shes bitchy to ya! then screw it dude.. srry
2006-08-12 00:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her find some1 else that will appreciate / love u back
2006-08-12 00:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋