what should i do?

Question

my bf actin like b**** he act like he cant touch me or nother .
i didnt do anything to him but everytyme he want a kiss he will ask, if he can seat next to me he will ask,can i call u all type of s***. is that what he should do and is that a good bf . or should he grow balls and do what every just no no freaky ****.

Answer 1

OMG....well i dont think he feels confortable just doing stuff w/o asking, i thiunk he is being respectful to u

Answer 2

Allthough it's a rather annoying habit, especially when it comes to something so simple as kissing, it sounds as if your boyfriend has been raised with some strong old school morals and values. Instead of getting upset about it, talk to him. And I don't mean by telling him to grow some balls either. That's not going to do it. Just simply tell him, "Honey, I love it when you kiss me, but please stop asking me. I'm not your mom, I can't give you permission, and it's creeping me out. Do what you feel is right and if I'm not okay with it, I'll let you know". It works wonders. Guys like this have been sheltered and he's just unsure of himself. Coach him along a few times and before you know it, he'll be secure enough in himself to just grab you and kiss you.

Answer 3

Maybe he's just shy, or scared to make a move...make him feel comfortable...you start makein' the moves...and he'll see that you wouldn't mind him makeing moves on you...Also, you could just ask him "What are you so scared of?"...and tell him that you WANT him to do those things without asking...that he's your boyfrined...your all his...just nothing too freaky. Lol. But that's how i am with my boyfrined...i'm scared to make the first move...he always has to do it, but it's because i'm scared of rejection...and your boyfrined might be scared of that too..just let him know that you won't reject him...and that you would never do that. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well, he's just trying to give you a choice. He probably doesn't want you to think he's bossy or rude. If it really bugs you, then talk to him about it. He must be really sweet if he asks you before doing something like that. I think he's being a good bf, but then again, maybe not. It depends on what YOU want.

Answer 5

i think in a way that's good, because he's showing you respect and wants to know how you feel about it, so he does care...
but if it's really getting on your nerves than YOU should get some courage and talk to him about it, just tell him that you like doing those things but that he doesn't need to ask permission for most of the stuff

Answer 6

yep.
good guy that.
and he, by the looks of that question, is looking in the wrong place.
now then:
while that's not the most common thing to find, would you prefer him doing something sexual to you without you asking? eh?
now then, what he doesn't know is where you draw that line.
I suggest that you help him through this, and tell him that he doesn't always have to ask. and make sure that you remember this when you get pissed off at him for doing **** to you without asking.
I do it to. my girlfriend prefers it somewhat that way though.

Answer 7

well i would say that he was a pretty good bf hell my bf dont ask nothing he just dose it but sometimes i think it would be better if he would ask. it just depends on what kind of guy your looking for.. if u like guys that do what they want then no he is not the right guy but if you like guys that r sweet & ask befor they do anything then you have one.

Answer 8

you're the one who is freaky and you don't appreciate a gentlemen asking permission to call you or come into your "personal space"..Do him a favor and drop him so he can get a girl who would like a kindly considerate man, and find yourself a Neanterthal.

Answer 9

it is a sign or respect but maybe you dont make him feel like he should be aggresive. just tell him what you want him to do and im sure he'll change the way he is for you. good luck!!

Answer 10

Sounds like he respects you, thats a good thing!