Not saying all relationships,but alot. Mine in particular. My man wants it all the time and gets upset when I am not in the mood. I love him and don't wanna lose him to another female so any advice...and please keep your dumb comments to yourself. I am just looking for sum honest advice.
2006-08-11 17:07:19 · 5 answers · asked by jerneemomma04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's lots of ways to satisfy his hunger without full-blown sex; when you're not in the mood for sex, giving him head or a hand job should soften him up without as much effort on your part. Or IM him with links to web sites with free pornography on them, and let him know you'd like a night off, but wouldn't mind if he took matters into his own hands, so to speak.
I'll be honest, as a male it's *always* better when you're in the mood; but if you're not, we can still have fun masturbating to some good porn. We're often embarrased to admit that to our partners, and aren't likely to be the ones broaching the subject, but if you let him know you'd actually be happier to have a night or two off with no pressure to have sex, and would be more likely to feel more into later, he'll probably recognize the wisdom in just having a fun night of masturbation on the nights you're not feeling up to it, rather than pressuring you into a situation where you start to resent him more and more, and avoid him in the bedroom due to the resentment.
It's worked well for my partner and I that way. I don't have to be furtive, or hide the fact that I'm browsing porn sites and masturbating on nights when she's not in the mood, and she feels less pressured into having sex when she's not up for it, which makes her more comfortable with it at other times.
Good luck with it!
2006-08-11 17:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try other ways to keep him interested in you. Like try different stuff like games or leave him little messages around or on his phone. Try things makes you and him happy. Something that will keep him satisfied as well. And one more thing be honest with him, if you love him and he loves you than that's the best way to handled your sit.
2006-08-11 17:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by dankekag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the nympho in my relationship and if my g/f doesnt want it for a few days it just builds up the anticipation.It makes the event even more special.If your boyfreind thinks enough of you he will stay.Plus I garauntee he is young and his sex drive will be astronomical
2006-08-11 17:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by niolbonthrone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being in the mood maybe your learn to like it.......ok
2006-08-11 17:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you will satisfy his needs.
2006-08-11 17:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by The Chief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋