I've really liked this guy for about a year and he's liked me too, but nothing ever happened b/c I started dating someone else. Well we started talkn (texting) and flirting a bit. He recently started talkn about wanting a FBuddy and used the phrase "someone to f*** and not mean anything" then asked if I wanted to be his FBuddy. The only problem is that I like him too much and if i did this i'd want to be in a relationship w/ him more than I already do. I actually hurt when he asked this b/c it like he's saying "all i want from u is sex, nothing more" I really dont know what to do, should i just try it and risk being heart broken or just try and forget him?
2006-08-11 17:00:31 · 22 answers · asked by Diverse Insanity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not worth it. if he can't see you as anything more than a sex toy, he's not worth your time. tell him how you feel...if he sees any value in you he'd best be smart and take the opportunity.
if you ask me though, he's a prick. if he already posed the idea of a no strings relationship, don't waste your time...you're obviously hot enough to wanna f****, so don't waste your time on him.
if you wanna be malicious, when you're in another relationship, you can tell him how great the sex is. that'll make him jealous lol
good luck sweetheart
2006-08-11 17:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by la wendada 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's asking you to just be his FBuddy because you are dating someone else. Tell him that you have stronger feelings for him and see how he responds. If he still wants you just as a FBuddy, let him loose. If you already have feelings for him, they will only intensify after sex and the heartache will be unbearable. Forgetting him is easier said than done but you better do it before you have sex with him.
2006-08-12 00:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by AllisonLynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shuld just try to forget him. Either that or tell him your true feelings. Maybe he feels the same but didn't want to get hurt so he said f buddies just to see if you were interested. If it were me I would talk to him and explain why you don't want to do that. If he says he feels the same then you have a relationship but if he says he's not looking for a relationship well then you should forget him. Also if you were to just have sex with him without a relationship, he may never commit to you because he's getting itfrom you already
2006-08-12 00:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. I know that you like him, and I've been in the same exact situation as you so I know it's hard but you need to get ova that lame. You are just gunna get ya heart broke and the fact that he even ASKED you if you wanted to be his **** buddy should let you know how lame he really is. Now I dont care if he is brown skinned, with that good hair all dreaded up, all dyed at the tips, with a ***** 6 pack fa days and a sexy *** smile. F*ck that h0e! He aint worth sh*it. I'm telling you from experience. Message me if you need any help iight? I hope you make the right decision ma... 1
DO NOT LISTEN TO SUNNYSJ!!!!!
OR MONTE!!!!
If yo tell him how you feel he's gunna "act " like he likes you just so he can fu ck you! Damn theses mutha ****** is stupid!
2006-08-12 00:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No forget that!
hes desperate
and he even said HE JUST WANTS SEX
he is usuing you
and your too good for that
hes obviously not a guy you should be liking
dump his sorry *** and move on
ii know its not easy but you need to try and overcome
those feelings
think of all the bad things hes done!
2006-08-12 00:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To like someone is no guarantee of affection. If you're dating someone else, it must be because you like this one better than this jerk who wants you just for the bed.
Ask yourself: what is it that you like in a man, no matter how disrespectful he's showing himself to be towards you? Do you like guys who only want you for a booty call?
I think you're confusing love with care with liking someone. You have some personal issues to address first. In the meantime, just tell him no...if you love yourself enough to tell him so, that is.
2006-08-12 00:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he actually likes you and doesn't know how to let you know so he's using this f*** buddy trip i'd go for it i once was in your situation and now my supposedly f Buddy is my husband and has been for 12 years you have to turn the tables on him after you get him hooked or let's say between the sheets.
2006-08-12 00:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's worth telling him how you feel and seeing how he reacts.
But don't hold out much hope -- unfortunately, it sounds like this guy only wants sex and doesn't care about your feelings otherwise. At least he did you the favor of telling you this upfront.
2006-08-12 00:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having sex with him but your just going to want him more and more so if you go through with it be ready to get your heart broken if he doesnt want anything more.
2006-08-12 00:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do the sex buddy thing because you will never have a chance at a real relationship.
2006-08-12 00:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by Krista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋