ladies...if u were this girl..what would u want me to do??

Question

HELP..i dont know what to do?? Please help!?
shes 13 im 15..it only 2 years....and if u like them it dont matter....she was all over me...and i could tell she liked me......so i asked her out....she said idk maybe...well its been about a month now..and she's really backed off.......well anyways....her and her mom are really close...and she told her mom..that she likes me...more than a friend..but she wont date me becuz she is scared of us breakin up..and thinks that if we do...it will be really weird seeing each other and stuff...what should i do...what if she loses interest....and y would she have backed off....how much time should i give her...will she come back around?? .what should i do..i like her so much..and trust me ...ive liked many girls...but none like her..i wanna be there for her....i want her to cry on my shoulder..what do i do to get her back...without "scaring" her?? I mean she's never had a bf b4.......so what should i do without scaring her??

Answer 1

you should tell her that "..i wanna be there for her....i want her to cry on my shoulder.." tell her that you cant know what is going to happen later on but that yall will deal with it when that day comes

Answer 2

I think you should just be her friend it will take less pressure off the relationship you both already have an attraction for each other but you so you can relax you already knows she likes you and i think your feelings are genuine so I think you can relax cause you can adjust your relationship till you are ready to get romantic again for I'd tell her we can take it slow but you do want to be there for her as a friend or boyfriend you just want to be there for her period that should relax her and I really would concentrate on being friends getting to know each other as people first then try for the romance thing GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

I think you should sit down with her and tell her what you feel. Trust me,,,you are not too young to be in love no matter what any one says. My mom and dad fell in love when they were 13 and were still together since then. I mean it is possible for us teenagers to fall in love. I dont care what people say,,,,your first love is the one you will always remember and will always be your strongest. Remember just talk to her and ask her what she feels. Do not be all macho because u think it is the cool thing to do. Tell her what you are feeling....JUST Let it out!!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Let her know that u like her and confence her that you arent gonna break up with her and just tell her how u feel let her know u arent tring to hurt her and really tell her why you like her tell her how u feel tell her that if you guys do break up then u will do what ever it take to build friend ship back up.

Answer 6

awe...you sound like me and my ex when we first got together....we had the same dilema...he was 15 and i was 17 ...we dated for a year and two months...his mom still hates me for being older and now im pregnant with his baby and he wont have anything to do with me..and he acted just like you sound....good luck

Answer 7

ask her out and tell her that you guys are going steady 4 now

Answer 8

Take it slow! Sit down and talk to her!

Answer 9

To young to worry about it

Answer 10

it sounds like she values your friendship a lot, she doesn't want to do anything that would jeopardize it. that's all!