I have a friend who always gets into relationships with really nice guys, but then she loses interest in them, but she doesn't want to hurt them. She keeps asking me for advice, and I don't know what to say. Help!!!
2006-08-11 16:36:49 · 7 answers · asked by purrr:) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't use a bat
2006-08-11 16:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Binky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she has the talk with them, the best thing for her to do is to explain what behaviors have caused her to lose interest in them. Not insultingly or anything, mind you. This way, instead of this guy doing the same things with every girl he dates that turn women off, he will at least have learned from it. That knowlege will make him feel somewhat better down the road. For instance, if they're "really nice," maybe they kiss her butt too much, and it turns her off. Let him know so he'll be better off next time around.
2006-08-11 16:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you will still not be able to help her when someone someday hurts her the way she is hurting others these days. What goes around always returns.
2006-08-11 23:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is life on the dating scene. People hurt and get hurt until you find the right one who rocks your world.
2006-08-11 16:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by jenniferscott1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she lose interest? She needs to learn, to commit! In answer to the question, you don't! There just is no way.
2006-08-11 16:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't use cliche'
and be honest why you are breaking up with them.
but in reality there are very few people that can take someone saying 'I don't want to spend any quality time with you anymore"
2006-08-11 16:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it...don't drag it out...just make it quick and don't hang around......the less contact you have afterwards the better
2006-08-11 16:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by El Jefe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋