2006-08-11 16:30:23 · 11 answers · asked by Adrian N. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't stop talking to him, but when he got hit by a truck that sort of changed things
2006-08-11 16:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhhh my goodness, i just posted a question asking if I should stop talking to the LOVE of my LIFE !!! I really need advice if anyone has some ideas.
But I lost him almost about 5 years ago when he had to move across the country for sports , and now that he is back and we are friends I still Love him. It is soooo hard. And I didnt want to tell him that I still loved him , especially since he was telling me how much he doesnt want to have a relationship with anyone.
Well, unfortunately there is the power of alcohol and last week when i got drunk i told him. he wasnt really surprised , and told me that he would be with me right now, even marry me right now, if he wouldnt have to find himself.
He said he wants to travel and find himself first ,and if I am still around when he returns from being abroad(he is planning to leave on dec and be gone for a year) he would be a very lucky guy.
after ignoring his calls for a couple of days i texted him that i have nothing left to say to him and wish him good luck in his life.
He called twice since then and i wonder if i should call him back or let it go. Everyone tells me i should let go .... should i?
2006-08-11 16:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Armenianchick1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every day. It was an innocent love, a pure love on my part. He was my best friend, and I fell like a rock for him. He possessed everything I valued: Good morales, funny, sweet, talented. However, it didn't work out. His feelings in return weren't mutual and he had a crush on someone else. So, as painful as it was for me, I let him go. He would be happier. Then other guys asked me out, and he went nutso. Didn't like that. Then the verbal, emotional, and even a little physical abuse started. I still liked him a lot, but in the end I knew it wasn't good for me. I turned to another good friend of mine for council, which didn't float with my first true love. Then I started dating the councilor. My first true love and I never had a relationship.
Despite all that, I still love him, even though I will never be with him. It is his choice not to talk to me. I wish he would, I want to be his friend, but I don't want him to be uncomfortable.
Still, had it not been for that, I never would have found my sweetie-pie current boyfriend, who never lets me down, and who I have only dear things to say about.
I really miss those days, when it was just him and me boppin' around, laughing, just enjoying being in each other's company. I'll never forget his smile...God, how he smiled...
2006-08-11 16:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by cadence_lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a long time I did. Then like 7 years later we reunited for like a month. I realized why it didn't work. I don't regret any of it.
2006-08-11 16:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omigosh, this is still fresh to me, so I know how you feel. Actually we don't talk anymore and it tears my heart because neither one of us have found anyone else, and we broke up recently for the dumbest reason. but anyway, you should contact whomever you're missing and say hello!
2006-08-11 16:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by damsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret it at all ever. He hit me and I never want to go back to that.
2006-08-11 16:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did 4 a long time but got over i t when i realized it wasnt love
2006-08-11 16:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Count me in.........but life has to go on and now I'm with my second true love.
2006-08-11 16:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me
2006-08-11 16:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't im in love right now
2006-08-11 16:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋