My husband and I have seperated because of his habitual drug habits.[meth]. A mutual friend of ours moved in, we have both known him for several years. We have talked and realized that we have had feelings for each other for years, he will not pursue anything with me because of his friendship with my soon to be X. I told him I have not loved my husband for years . Should he feel ok about dating me?
2006-08-11 16:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by robin m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He moved in while we were both here. My soon to be X invited him to stay with us.
2006-08-11 16:36:59 · update #1
Typically I'd say no, but your story is unique. You have been married. You aren't a teenager anymore. You know how you feel. Your husband is out of your life and probably isn't a good friend to this friend since he uses meth still, I am sure after repeated attempts to stop him. If you two have feelings for each other, go ahead. He doesn't owe his friend anything. He must think of himself. This isn't selfish. Love could come from this relationship. Love is the greatest feeling in the world. I would be behind your relationship all the way. Good luck!
2006-08-11 16:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband had dumped you and started dating one of your friends, how would you feel? He is doing the right thing and being a good friend to your ex. You may have issues with him, but show the poor guy a little respect. You would want it if the tables were turned.
2006-08-11 23:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why worry about dating if he's already moved in? He's not much of a friend of your soon to be ex if he's talking to you about mutual attraction and moved in to his house with his wife. Honestly, if he were your husband's friend and concerned about his feelings, he'd be with him, not you. I suspect you already know what to do.
2006-08-11 23:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's going to feel how he feels. There's no "should feel".
Sometimes guys have an honor or respect. Also, guys know how REALLY CRAPPY it is to see an ex out with another guy. He may be trying to be considerate towards his friend.
2006-08-11 23:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO he should not feel OK about dating you.You should find someone that is not your x husbands friend.
2006-08-11 23:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not push him into anything. This is a good quality in someone!!!
2006-08-11 23:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it!
2006-08-11 23:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by psycho88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋