Dont get me wrong, I love my family and take care of them willingly. But, why don't dudes cook it, fold it, wipe it, scrub it, dust it,or mop it?(I know some dudes do) But why do most men just leave it up to their lady?
2006-08-11 16:08:59 · 21 answers · asked by lookinfomoney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Because there lazy. If this bothers you swap positions for a wile and it will make him appreciate all the work you do. And then he will realise that he has to help you more around the house
2006-08-11 16:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Becuz at the beginning of time thats what the women were expected to do and even though times have changed and this is the 21st century men are still stuck in the middle ages and lets face it men are just a bunch of little boys who need a mommy to do everything for them and as a wife/gf that is the role we take on and even though we really hate it and continue to do it, it wouldn't get done if it werent for us so pat youselves on the back all you women out there and remember what the world would be like without us
2006-08-11 16:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by dnicebnice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because cultural habit going back to the dawn of civilization dicated that the men went out to hunt and gather food while the women did household chores (since they were there with the kids anyway).
Simple genetics and thousands of years of habit. If the women did the hunting because they had the larger muscles and higher aggression, you would be called men!
2006-08-11 16:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, i do not. What i recognize is men associate women folk who're reliable dancers are reliable in mattress. yet for men, no, i imagine many men are shy to leap or per chance slightly stiff. yet who's prevalent with how they're in mattress?
2016-11-24 21:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks to the 1950s!!! LEAVE IT TO BEAVER!! Plus since women have the babies and that forces them into the kitchen to feed and take care of their children. Most women before they have their baby will go through a cleaning spurt called nesting. Women tend to be more domestic for their children. I like the 60s, BURN YOUR BRA and hire Alice from the Brady Bunch to clean your house.
2006-08-11 16:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. because we choose to do it,
2. as young girls and boys, our moms would call girls to come help and leave the boys to play, so we are already programmed by the time we are older
3. in many family's, behind closed doors, boys are teased for being clean, and tidy, some parents associate it with homosexuality, so they will ridicule the male child from cleaning and being tidy, and from cooking, from any female associated 'duty'
4. when the relationship starts girls, will clean and cook to impress,
5. the males in today's society are not making enough money to take care of a family, and in turn the women is unable to stay home to take care of the family, but because of the rolls placed on us as children it is hard to move away from that mind set
6. if women didn't do it and the man refused to, who would?
7. it shows that women are that much much much stronger than males in every aspect of the word, we are able to work, take care of kids, cook, clean and still have time for sex,
2006-08-11 16:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
traditional roles, goes back to cavemen times when the men went out to hunt and they brought back the food to the women so they could cook it. it sucks, i know. i don't cook, but i clean cuz i have to, it just wouldn't get done! i'm not a cook. i'm in school so i can make money to hire someone to cook for me!
2006-08-11 16:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by mizz_kitty_79 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men already did their part....inventing the vacuum cleaners, dishwashers, washer and driers, cleaning supplies, ovens (not to mention fast prepared foods) that make "housework" trivial to do.
Back before we invented all that stuff for you, your chores took all day long, every day of backbreaking labor. Now, you are lucky to spend an hour or so a day while we spend all day at work.
Suck it up.
2006-08-11 16:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because thats how it has always been..ever since the beginning of mankind. the men go out and hunt to provide food for their famalies, and the women take care of the family. that rule is basically set in stone
2006-08-11 16:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by Poj23 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
In my case its the complete opposite, I do most of the work!
2006-08-11 16:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by partyjoey 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋