I'm about to move to another state.I'm moving in a year, and right when i found out i'm about to move, i started talking to this guy ive met since the beginning of this year again. i noticed that i was starting to have feelings for this guy. a week later i told him that Im starting to like him, and he told me the same. we werent sure at first if we should start a relationship. but we didnt care nemore.we live life only once so we started dating.and then later i asked him"would u say u like me? or love me?" couple days later he told me "I love you and i mean it". i was stunned, scared, flattered but i was hoping for that answer but i also new once he said that we would be committing to a long distance relationship wich is the scary part i'm scared that once i'm gone things will have a dramatic change and i still want to love him care for him and him doing the same for me.. i just dont know what to do.. its a relationship that took a real strong turn and it hurts to think of me gone.....
2006-08-11 16:01:59 · 5 answers · asked by (<' . '<)MoOomOOoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was in the same thing with this guy. we have been a llong distance realtionship for almost a year now. it gets really hard sometimes. im not going to lie to you, we have broken up at least 3 times already. but our love for each other is soo strong that it always brings us back together. with all the trails and tribulations that we have been through this year i know that we can get through anything. living close to each other is all well and good, but a long distabce realtionship takes true work. and you both really love each other then you will be fine.
2006-08-11 16:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are moving in a year, the relationship may not even last that long. Just take things one day at a time.
2006-08-11 23:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this hurts hon, but you are very young. There will be more boys and then men whom you will adore and love. It is possible to have a long distance romance, but not probabal. You will meet other guys, and he will meet other girls. That doesn't mean that there still can't be a future for you.
Try not to make this the center of your being
2006-08-11 23:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how old you are, but you can have a long distance relationship. i am in long distance relationship right. my bf had to move up north. i live in Calif. we been together for seven years and strong. he comes down and i go up their. we talk a lot on the phone. or the net. if you both are honest, and really love each other it will work. trust me. i know. good luck.
2006-08-11 23:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang on tight when life shifts the wrong way because if you hang on loosely your bound to break.
2006-08-11 23:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋