2006-08-11 15:59:24 · 41 answers · asked by eeyore20602 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him. You are thirteen and it is doubtful that you have met your soulmate. There are other fish in the sea. DUMP HIM.
2006-08-11 16:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by sukditup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to get a lot of answers that tell you to kick him to the curb, but I think you are going a little deeper than that. You feel powerless to leave him, because there may be some negative consequences (i.e., you are afraid that he is going to hurt you). Alright lttle girl, it is time to inform your parents, or a teacher at school. You need help to get out of this abusive relationship...and you are only 13. Do not try to leave the relationship on your own. Get the adults involved, and let them know how he has been treating you. You are in the danger zone honney...go tell your parents now...
Note: I am the mother of a teen-ager, and I would personally kick my son's butt if he ever treated a girl like that!!!
2006-08-11 16:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more than too young to have this kind of stuff going on in your head. Drop him today...tell him you won't be seeing him again as a boy friend. He is a budding control freak who will work to wreck your head. The only way to stop someone like this is to tell them to back off, it ain't gonna work, you don't want to see him again. Trust me, he will be ALL love and flowers when he thinks you are leaving, but as soon as you say, OK, I'll stay, he will start back in on you. Don't be silly...learn NOW that this is unacceptable behavior from anyone, let alone a boy friend. He is NOT a good person, and will get worse with age. Leave now. And stop worrying about boy friends..you have lots of time for that nonsense. Good luck and peace.
2006-08-11 16:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you r 13 yrs old if u start letting boys make u feel bad about your self now just think what might happen when you r 19 and 20 it will get worse. take a stand! tell him off! then turn your back on him. if u do it right u will feel larger than life. as for him boys r supposed to make u feel good all most all the time if u don't feel good what the point of being with him? good luck hon. and stand strong
2006-08-11 16:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by underH20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP HIM! The next time he comes around, tell him you don't want to see him anymore, because you don't like the way he treats you. Even if he says he's sorry, don't give in. He'll then think all he has to do is treat you badly, then apologize, and he will keep on making you feel bad. Break up with him and move on...there are plenty of guys out there you will meet before you decide on "Mr. Right," don't waste your time on the mean boys.
2006-08-11 16:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by queenbeeincontrol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlie First of all HE must not feel good about his self and is jealous about the way you look , he needs to respect you. He's suppose to be your boyfriend not your enemy .HE should be the one that makes you feel the best. And you are only 13 you have plenty of time to grow on and there are many fish in the sea . He must be immature get rid of him if he makes you feel that bad. Go with your heart.
2006-08-11 16:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by shyle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it will only get worse he is edging towards total control. alot of the time when a person is a control person the 1st thing they do is knock u down, sooner or later u will be so far down and dislike urself that he will have total contorl.
DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
trust me u feel bad now, u will feel 10 times worse when he is done, most people don't even see it coming until he has u so confused u think its ur fault.
IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE
2006-08-11 16:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by jesse james 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend makes you uncomfortable, he's not suitable for you. I suggest you dump him and move on, because what's the use of him if he just makes you feel bad? Boyfriends are supposed to nurture, support, and make a girl feel good about herself, help her feel beautiful. I think you should dump him because you don't deserve that sh*t.
2006-08-11 16:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by anu_dew2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him? I'm assuming he's young too and is selfish to the point he doesn't know how to treat girls yet. And you're obviously so young you don't know what to do when a guy is treating you like shet. Leave him. It's not gonna end your life, nor his.
2006-08-11 16:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time to experience relationships with jerks. There's no need to waste your youth on them right now. Drop him like a hot cake!
2006-08-11 16:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by SheeShee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋