me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 and a 1/2 months now and were having these baby problems all over again. he's a "gangsta,hustla,etc." and i'm just a regular girl trying to make this work. he's been in new york for two weeks and got back on saturday(aug.5) and he has not called me yet! it is now friday night. i got a friend's advice and she said get rid of him because he's not even checking up on you,and 2 others said they think that the other girl and him are somewhat "involved". i really do love him.i know i'm not too young for true love but this is probably young love, right? i know it's crazy for me to get advice from people i've never met but that's mostly the best advice. please, all serious answers,HELP!!
2006-08-11 15:56:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why waste your time on someone who disrespects you like that?? No way would I be a "conveinience" for any guy..... If he's not calling you, then move on, there are plenty fish in the sea, plenty who know how to treat a woman!!
2006-08-11 16:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he oviously doesnt put you into much consideration if he's got time to do everything but call you, and he takes you for granted thats why he didnt call thinking you'd be there waiting for him regardless the circumstances what type of gangsta or hustler is he if you mean he's into drugs better get out while you can cause if he gets busted and you are there youre going to jail right along with him you got to think about your life your future while you sitting at home he out in new york hustlin and being with some chic you deserve better
2006-08-11 23:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep - get rid of him. He's obviously using you for a convenience - my guess is he's got another girl or 2 on the line somewhere (New York maybe?)
2006-08-11 23:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not cool that he hasn't even called. I would be P!$$ED. It kinda seems like he doesn't even care or miss you. Maybe you should break up with him and find someone who will miss you when he's gone and call you when he's home. Good luck.
2006-08-11 23:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you love about him? Certainly not his considerate nature. It sound as if he dumped you and I think you are well rid of him. Go on with your life.
2006-08-11 23:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him.
2006-08-11 22:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i all ready told u wat to do
soy bye bye
lol
2006-08-11 23:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋