I was going with this guy who use to call me when he wanted to have sex and money. He never took me out, but now since i turned his telephone off I find mysself thinking of him. why is this will it get better? Will I meet someone else? He did me so wrong?
2006-08-11 15:41:58 · 11 answers · asked by brownsuga 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A man treating you well is directly tied to your self esteem. That is why women love jerks. "If I am not able to get him to act right what does that say about me, am I too fat, am I ugly?" In order to get these insecure thoughts out of your mind you keep sweatin the dude hoping he will fall in love thus alleviating your insecurities. But what you don't know is that he feels the same way. He has you where he wants you so his self esteem is fine. You want to hold the cards? Stop sleeping with him and insult him. Say stuff like "are you gaining weight? or man, what did you eat?" Make him think he is fat and his breath stinks and he will start sweatin you, I promise.
2006-08-11 15:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some serious work on your self-esteem. YOu made yourself available to him in this way. I think you have problems associating sex with affection. Next guy you meet, hold off on the sex for awhile and see what kind of person he is. If he puts the moves on the first date and rejects you when you say no, then that should tell you right then he only wants your booty, not you.
If you don't think much of yourself, then you will only attract guys that won't think much of you and use you.
NOBODY CAN USE YOU UNLESS YOU LET THEM!
"FOOL ME ONCE, SHAME ON YOU, FOOL ME TWICE, SHAME ON ME."(not sure who originated this quote)
2006-08-11 15:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by jiminycricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 04:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it sounds like he was using U.. :( sorry, these guys that do that usually are looking for someone to take care of them. So look elsewhere you deserve better than this. Oh and U will meet someone again, and yes he did you wrong..
2006-08-11 15:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definately using you for da BOOOOOTY!!!! Trust me, either deal with it for what it is worth and NOTHING else or break it off. You will be sad and miss him for a while but it will get better and you will feel better about yourself in the long run. Meanwhile you can use your imagination and a good electric massager :)
2006-08-11 15:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by acg73@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER,NEVER,NEVER let yourself be treated like that. Have more self respect for yourself and go find a guy that isn't going to USE YOU like that!!!! And for gods sake don't waste another minute of your life even thinking about him. He's not worth it!!!!
2006-08-11 15:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Keep ur head up and you'll find the right guy for u.
2006-08-11 15:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO That q is self expanitory. YES drop the looser and find someone who wants to be with you for you.
2006-08-11 15:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by white_choclte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was a booty call and im sure u realized it
im sure u'll find another guy who isnt as stupid
2006-08-11 15:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by babyg_tinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you liked the sex sooooo much now you wondering about him...
2006-08-11 15:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy LoVe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋